I think that the world was not designed correctly. No offense, but people like you stick out like a sore thumb. Hell, even I do, I honestly have no idea why I'm not in an asylum yet. I hope that one day, people like your ex will be removed via social darwinism but in the meantime, all of us "damaged goods" will enjoy a world where we chose our fate. I'm sorry if I insulted anyone. Feel free to bash me in the comments.