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Edited by MUSICAL_NNJA_CAT:
9/25/2015 7:49:54 PM
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Just a question, not looking for hate
Ok, so. Over the summer break my best friend [spoiler]who is a guy, i am a girl[/spoiler] and i stopped being friends. We had feelings for each other before that, but back to the story.
Over summer i met my now boyfriend and was talking about him to my besy friend, i tell him i had never been happier. [spoiler]back story on why my best friend and i werent dating anymore. Hr had called me fat, im very self conscious and had compared me to a girl he had a crush on who is younger, skinnier and i feel is prettier. You dont do that guys. You just dont,[/spoiler] so, i said that and being my best friend he should be happy that im over my anxiety and depression, instead he just says to stop talking about it and that he doesnt want to talk. So i say 'what is it that im falling for another guu that you dont like? You are my best friend, im a girl, im gonna talk abouy guys!' And he got really mad. A few days later he told me to never talk to him again. Then compared me yet again to another girl, who he knows i dont like. So, who do you think was in the wrong? Me or him?
Remeber, we were best friends... bros. And, he also has a big mouth and a comment for everything.
Either way, just asking for a few opinions
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Meh. Sounds like the guy's in the wrong. +1 to the drama in the world though.
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1 ReplyI didn't read the post. But I like the username.
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4 RepliesYou said that you [i][b]dont[/b][/i] do that kinda thing to a girl by calling her fat. Well, you [i][u][b]DON'T[/b][/u][/i] take your guy friends for granted and ramble on ceaselessly about your boyfriend, especially if you've known them longer. You know that depression and anxiety you were talking about? Take that feeling of not being good enough and then imagine having your heart stomped on by someone you cared enough about to stay with for any length of time, even if they didn't acknowledge you. That being said, you're right that he should be happy that you're happy. But he doesn't have any obligation to be happy about you finding a boyfriend even if that's the reason you're happy. It's kinda like how you love your family members, but you don't always like them. [b][i]TL;DR[/i][/b]: You both -blam!-ed up. He was insensitive about your appearance, and you his feelings.
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To be honest, both were wrong
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1 ReplyI'm a guy who had a lot of female friends. Last thing you want to do is talk about other dudes to guys.
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[quote]Drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama drama [/quote] Sparknotes version
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1 ReplyYou don't talk about people who you wanna -blam!-, around your ex who is also your best friend when you are 16.
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1 ReplyOp says not to hate, Still gets hate, None appreciate,
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1 ReplyAh, drama. All this goes away when you accept who you are, how you are. If someone wants to be your friend, they'll accept you as well. If not, lose their number and contact info. You've got better things to do. As for wiener boy there, tell him he reminds you of a guy you really liked, except this guy wasn't a self absorbed, passive aggressive prick. And Bob's your uncle.
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He'll get over it. You'll get over it too
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9 RepliesI don't f[u]u[/u]cking know I went to college to forget this highschool level drama bullshit [u][/u]
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Fūk him
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It's called the friend zone & he doesn't want to be in it anymore. Simple.
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I don't know. :)
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Being friends with your ex was your first mistake haha... coming from experience never ever EVERRRRR become friends afterwards. Reminds me of when my ex cheated on me for the second time and was like let's stay best friends while I get plowed by the guy I cheated on you with... tbh no offense to you, your probably a decent person but when you asked to stay friends he should have replied like I did "-blam!- you whore, I don't think so". (Maybe not the whore part XD).
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5 RepliesHAAAATE!!!!
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He was for the most part, but it sounds like you might've overreacted. Also that spelling is killing me.
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There is absolutely no benefit in trying to remain friends with someone you used to date.
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1 ReplyThing is, if he's getting ansy about things, when you talk to him about other guys, there's only one reason or for it. He's still not over you. That's why he's lashing out. If he said some dumbass things to you, fine. Make him suffer. But to break up over it was a bit much. Sounds like he was stupid, and is paying the biggest price for it. Ask yourself, if he didn't talk about these other girls, would you still be with him?
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2 RepliesNo one was in the wrong I don't even see a problem ya both are just jealous that is all
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Cant really say. Id have to here the story from someone else, given that yours is probably bias. But im sure im saying what many of us are thinking when i say that i dont really care.
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12 RepliesFriends come and go I'd say just forget about him and move on with your life.
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3 RepliesIf ypu arent dating him anymore and he is ur bro, he should support you as a mate no matter what. For him to blow up like that is hopeless. You did nothing wrong. Imho, this guy sounds like a dick with no respect for women and no care fpr anyone but himself. [spoiler]ps. Im a guy and trust me we arent all assholes[/spoiler]
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1 ReplyI think you were both in the wrong. Honestly, speaking from experience here, that is most often the case.
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3 RepliesYou were wrong. It doesn't take little more than common sense to know that would make him mad. I would have done the same thing. You were rubbing it in on purpose and also being a hypocrite. You can talk about guys be he can't talk about girls?
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6 RepliesHe sounds like he's being a little bitch. If you two had something in the past it stays there. He apparently moved on having developed a new crush so if he can't deal with u in a new relationship and being happy you should forget about him
