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#Septagon

1/2/2013 5:10:47 AM
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A huge problem with this community

Before I begin, let me clarify something. This thread is mostly in reference to threads on the Flood, because the Septagon is saturated with employees, moderators, and people dedicated to pleasing the previous two groups, and because the game forums have effectively died. Bungie.net has a culture problem. A culture problem that I believe is detrimental to the growth and success of the website. Hostility is not really something I see talked about much here so I figured this was worth a thread. The Flood's not a pleasant place, and it never really has been. In fact, it got so bad that the Big Man had to step in and [url=http://www.bungie.net/Forums/posts.aspx?postID=26466683]do this[/url]. It kind of feels like the entire community, moderators and members both, have forgotten [url=http://www.bungie.net/Help/content_viewer.aspx?link=conduct]that being a jerk is a bad thing.[/url] Anyone who posts often on the Flood can see this. People are constantly tossing around insults, and pretty nasty ones at that. For some reason, no one seems to care anymore - maybe because we're dark, or maybe because we've just all gotten lazy or grown out of being bothered by such things. [url=http://www.bungie.net/Forums/posts.aspx?postID=76620787]Just look through a few[/url] [url=http://www.bungie.net/Forums/posts.aspx?postID=76616824]pages from a couple of threads made since yesterday.[/url] Let me stop here and say that I am not trying to be negative and judgmental towards the moderation team. I know that holding that position is difficult from experience elsewhere, I know how exhausting and bothersome the job is. I'm aware that moderators can't be everywhere at all times to ban people who are hurling nasty insults at someone. This is just as much a call to members. Every one of us are given a report button so we can help keep the forums clean, but who really uses it unless they're upset over something an OP said? How often do you see a post reported aside from OPs and harmful links? The sheer nastiness that can be seen just by scanning over any somewhat long thread is astounding. Maybe moderators don't ban people within threads because they don't see them. Maybe the same is true for people not reporting a post. I can't tell you how many times I've seen a moderator lock an exceptionally long thread, that everyone knows is nothing but a cluster-blam!- of angry people spewing hate at each other, and not bother to even read the second post. Like I said, I understand when you just don't see it, but why in the hell are people in these huge threads not reporting these types of posts? I know that people will be jerks on the internet, and I'm not expecting it to change. But can we please do something to get rid of this toxicity before new people start pouring in? People have strong opinions on things, and they're certainly entitled to them, but why do you have to insult someone by saying you can't tell if she's a boy or a girl? Why do you have to say nasty things to non-heteros, or females, or people who don't like the same private group as you do? Why is any of this tolerated at all? Allowing this stuff to go on is just running people away from the site, because a civilized person has no reason to spend their time being involved in a community that harbors these types of people. I know what the responses will be to this post. People will tell me how I'm being too sensitive and how it's just the way the internet is. People will tell me I'm one of the jerks. And look, I know I overstep the line sometimes when I'm joking. None of us are perfect, but I don't think asking members to attempt to be decent (and mods to enforce decency when needed) is too much to ask. You can ignore this problem all you want, but I know from talking to others that I'm not the only person who sees this. It's a real problem that needs to be fixed.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Harlow [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Silentone2 Let me say this tenderly: There's no way, whatsoever, to change this. It isn't a problem. And if I could give you some advice, it would be that, if you want a peaceful forum geared towards gentle discussion, the forums for a series of first person shooters popular with teenagers probably isn't the place to look. [/quote] I don't believe it's unchangeable. I also don't believe that because there are problems that are difficult to deal with, they should be ignored "just because that's the way it is".[/quote] You're talking about changing the behavior of a massive group of people, one which almost no authoritative power is held over (even thought that's the worst way to influence the type of behavior you want). People act the way they act because people act the way the act. You aren't any better or worse than them for acting differently (though you're really not acting any different than them).

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  • You can't see the hostility? You must be under a spell. Why am I not surprised you all have one thing in common.... [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] easytomake [/quote] [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] jaythenerdkid [/quote] [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] R3ACTlON [/quote]

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] R3ACTlON [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Verachi You talk against hostility but your OP is hostile. Interesting.....[/quote]It isn't?[/quote] Constructive criticism. A call to duty, if you will. Pointing out things in a calm manner is not hostile, really.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Silentone2 Let me say this tenderly: There's no way, whatsoever, to change this. It isn't a problem. And if I could give you some advice, it would be that, if you want a peaceful forum geared towards gentle discussion, the forums for a series of first person shooters popular with teenagers probably isn't the place to look. [/quote] I don't believe it's unchangeable. I also don't believe that because there are problems that are difficult to deal with, they should be ignored "just because that's the way it is".

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  • I realized recently that I'd only ever really reported the first posts in threads, and I've tried to change that. It's pretty hard to continually do something that you don't see direct feedback from, but I believe this is a problem that's being addressed.

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  • I agree. I try to do what I can but not being a Ninja makes it difficult. I also hardly bother with the flood. However, I do report any monkey business I see here in the community within reason. People need to relax on here. We all have a part on here whether we are ninjas or not. Part of that includes being reasonable and respectful even during conflict and disagreements.

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  • I agree 100%, Harlow. I'm with you that being a jerk is bad thing and people need to make an effort to report jerks in the main forums. Nice thread.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Verachi You talk against hostility but your OP is hostile. Interesting.....[/quote] I fail to see how this could be taken as hostile, in my point of view it seemed like the OP was more disappointed with many members then being hostile to them. Back on topic, I do agree things are pretty hostile on the forums. I think this has always been the case though, it could be worse, I stopped bothering to go on the mains a long time ago because I could not stand it anymore, but it seems to be that the hostility here will always be here.

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  • Let me say this tenderly: There's no way, whatsoever, to change this. It isn't a problem. And if I could give you some advice, it would be that, if you want a peaceful forum geared towards gentle discussion, the forums for a series of first person shooters popular with teenagers probably isn't the place to look.

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  • A large number of offensive remarks are contributed by the trolls intending to provoke a reaction. They'll always be around since they can keep making alts so the Flood will probably always be a cesspit. As for the Community, I don't think anyone is really a jerk unless someone says something really dumb. In that case he'll probably receive sarcastic replies. New members will probably be sticking to the Destiny forum, with a few coming to the Community. The Flood will always be the same, but the Community will have new members who will eventually integrate and talk like the older members. So I don't think it's such a big problem.

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Verachi You talk against hostility but your OP is hostile. Interesting.....[/quote]It isn't?

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  • [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Verachi You talk against hostility but your OP is hostile. Interesting.....[/quote]How? Criticism isn't necessarily hostility.

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  • You talk against hostility but your OP is hostile. Interesting.....

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