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12/12/2012 7:18:32 AM
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Girls...
So Flood, I've been friends with this girl for the past several months -that is, since school began- and we've hung out, talked a lot, and I had liked her for sometime-though no longer. Anyways, her and several other girls have told me I'm awesome, have told me I'm a sweet guy, and that some girl's is going to be swept off her feet by me one day.
Yet, what I don't understand is why wouldn't one of those girls want to date a guy like me if I am what they say I am? I certainly don't mean to make this some sort of gosh @#!*% pity party, but, I guess I wonder why girls say these things, but they don't seem to see that a guy like me is datable. Why even say it in the first place?
Any thoughts Flood? I'm kind of at a loss.
[Edited on 12.12.2012 12:46 AM PST]
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Have you tried letting them have sex with you?
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How do you know they won't date a guy like you? Have you even tried asking one of them out?
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You're probably unattractive and boring.
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They are not attracted to you. They vary well could think you're an amazing guy and just not have those feelings for you. It just is what it is. There is no friend zone, you may not even be ugly. Sometimes things just are.
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They either are too nervous to tell you or a nice way to say your awesome but not as a BF
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Ask them out?
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] superspartan178 How do you know they won't date a guy like you? Have you even tried asking one of them out?[/quote]That's a fair question. I have asked one. She went on the date, but she liked another guy. She said all these things, wasn't interested.
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Maybe they think that you are still interested in her so they wouldn't want to make it awkward by trying to get involved with you.
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Tell them you're -blam!-, they'll get naked in front of you.
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Les femmes sont difficiles à comprendre parfois. Peut-être qu'ils attendent pour vous faire un geste sur eux?
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Maybe it has something to do with your face. Personality isn't everything.
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Just say "AY BIZNATCH, WHY AIN'T U TEH ONE DAT SWEEP MAH DICK OFF HIS FEET!?!?"
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Squiggy Tell them you're -blam!-, they'll get naked in front of you.[/quote] Listen to this guy. He's engaged.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] PandaJerk007 Maybe they think that you are still interested in her so they wouldn't want to make it awkward by trying to get involved with you.[/quote]Perhaps. Perhaps. Nice avatar by the way. Lol.
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Chances are (and this is no offense to you since I have no idea what you look like) she just isn't attracted to you. You may have been friend zoned. If you want to take the risk, ask her out. But if she just considered you a friend and finds out you like her, she might get weirded out. Trust me, I've been there done that lol Edit: Sometimes a guy can be more attractive to a girl over time. I wouldn't give up just yet! [Edited on 12.11.2012 11:24 PM PST]
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Girls lie.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] xl OC Girl lx Chances are (and this is no offense to you since I have no idea what you look like) she just isn't attracted to you. You may have been friend zoned. If you want to take the risk, ask her out. But if she just considered you a friend and finds out you like her, she might get weirded out. Trust me, I've been there done that lol[/quote] Wait, so, you're not attracted to me? I thought you didn't want to ruin our friendship. that hurts :'(
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Doctor Jensen [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] superspartan178 How do you know they won't date a guy like you? Have you even tried asking one of them out?[/quote]That's a fair question. I have asked one. She went on the date, but she liked another guy. She said all these things, wasn't interested.[/quote] [quote]I have asked one. She went on the date, but she liked another guy. She said all these things, wasn't interested.[/quote] [quote]I have asked one.[/quote] I may have found the problem. [Edited on 12.11.2012 11:24 PM PST]
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Because a woman can think you're an awesome person but not want to have a relationship with you and it shouldn't matter to you because her personal decisions are none of your business. Why don't you take the compliment and value their friendship? You're not entitled to a relationship the moment a girl compliments you.
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First off, ask them out. If that doesn't work, you've been friendzoned. Don't fret, though. If that's the case, dump these chicks and find new ones to talk to. Plenty of fish in the sea brother, and they aren't all going to like you. In fact, most won't.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] CamCamm Girls lie. [/quote] Especially to OP....
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ankerd123 [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] CamCamm Girls lie. [/quote] Especially to OP....[/quote]Well I didn't say it! Attraction. It's odd sometimes.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] cortana 5 Because a woman can think you're an awesome person but not want to have a relationship with you and it shouldn't matter to you because her personal decisions are none of your business. Why don't you take the compliment and value their friendship? You're not entitled to a relationship the moment a girl compliments you.[/quote] See, as a guy, I feel the same way about some girls. I'm not attracted to every girl, or every friend I have. I don't see why guys find it shocking that women don't want to bang every guy they meat.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] xl OC Girl lx Chances are (and this is no offense to you since I have no idea what you look like) she just isn't attracted to you. You may have been friend zoned. If you want to take the risk, ask her out. But if she just considered you a friend and finds out you like her, she might get weirded out. Trust me, I've been there done that lol[/quote]No, I mean I've gotten it from several girls. The say I'm some amazing guy, but if they thought that, wouldn't they at least see some sort of potential in me? I mean, I'm not naive enough to think that every girl likes me because they said I'm sweet, but no girls? [Edited on 12.11.2012 11:26 PM PST]
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Swagoth Ur [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Doctor Jensen [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] superspartan178 How do you know they won't date a guy like you? Have you even tried asking one of them out?[/quote]That's a fair question. I have asked one. She went on the date, but she liked another guy. She said all these things, wasn't interested.[/quote] [quote]I have asked one. She went on the date, but she liked another guy. She said all these things, wasn't interested.[/quote] [quote]I have asked one.[/quote] I may have found the problem.[/quote]One of the girls that said that to me. I've been on many dates. :|
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Wait. Wait. Wait. If they're being nice and complimenting OP, then they obviously "like" him. They just don't want to date him. Have you all never been introduced to the concept of friendship? And that's a stupid course of action. "Well, I'm not getting any from these chicks who are being respectful of me and compliment me and maybe even actually value my friendship, so I'm outta here!" Flawless logic. [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] JoiStiq117 First off, ask them out. If that doesn't work, you've been friendzoned. Don't fret, though. If that's the case, dump these chicks and find new ones to talk to. Plenty of fish in the sea brother, and they aren't all going to like you. In fact, most won't.[/quote]
