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10/11/2013 4:22:40 AM
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So there's this girl... (you know where this is going)
She works at the community library. I've had her check out my books before. And I've [i]checked her out a couple times[/i] as she walked around the library.
Two days ago I grew the balls to actually say something to her. I asked if she had a record of my recent check outs so that I knew which issue of the walking dead I was on...She said no, then we chatted a little about that.
Then I asked her name, checked out my books, said bye, then left.
Today I went in again, and before I even had a chance to say hi, she said hi to me first.
Then when I checked out my books, we talked about the walking dead again.
TLDR:
Girl at library said hi to me first, does she like me? Should I ask her out?
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2 回覆由Jakku Yami編輯： 10/11/2013 8:21:34 AMNo shes a succabus [spoiler]she wants your cock...[/spoiler] [spoiler]...and your life essence[/spoiler]
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1 回覆That's not how you do it bro... You talk to 4 or more girls, get their numbers, narrow out the stupid ones, and pick the ones who are the hottest and least stupid.
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2 回覆So you're interpreting basic social etiquette as possible romantic interest just because this person is female? Y'know, I used to think I was socially awkward, but whenever I come to this forum I feel so much better about myself.
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Dude, this is just sad. I have multple female friends and whenever I see one, we say hi and we hug. That's just what friends do, especially girls are much more physical. If she only said "hi" she's just being polite, but she obviously likes you (just like I can like a male friend). Friendship comes before love and you aren't even friends yet.
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1 回覆由Buckysaurus編輯： 10/11/2013 5:06:02 AMOP, do whatever the -blam!- your heart desires. Regrets and 'what ifs' are -blam!-ing painful so if you think you should, do it because she could get hit by a bus if you don't and you'll always wonder about what would have happened with that girl who works at the library. (But maybe 'asking her out' is a little strong at first just ask her to hang out while you do something small) Also, probably ask her for her number first or something and say that you just want to talk about books or some shit if you are that scared (This route has a low risk -blam!- up way but high risk of the friend zone)
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4 回覆由Y o n k e r s編輯： 10/11/2013 5:01:16 AMShe's just being polite. Acquaintances is the only thing you two are. Just because a girl says "Hi" to you doesn't mean she's interested. Don't misinterpret that. What I would do if I was you is just keep doing what you're doing. Find some of her other interests and build an idea off that. For example, invite her to watch a Walking Dead marathon with a couple of your friends. Note, I said this was just an example. Which is why it's crucial to knowing what else she enjoys. If you were to ask her to tag along for something, catch her while she's putting books away, not while she's stationed to checking other students books out. So you two can speak alone and you won't be so nervous.
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由Pendulate編輯： 10/11/2013 5:00:39 AMYou could always just ask her out and see for yourself. If she says no, at least you learned a valuable lesson about social interaction. Either way, asking a video game forum what to do isn't a step in the right direction.
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2 回覆由Bolt編輯： 10/11/2013 4:36:16 AMHere's a tip from someone who still has empathy-pain from watching this happen to female coworkers; don't think that just because a girl's being nice to you when she's working that she's flirting with you; it's basically her job. That said, a community library sounds less intense than most of the places I would apply this to. While I would still say that asking her out when she's working is a bad idea, perhaps you could turn your next conversation towards more casual topics and hope for the best. It would really be best if you could find a way to meet her outside of work though (that doesn't involve stalking).
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1 回覆Idk if you can determine she likes you quite yet... You're jumping to conclusions bc she said "hi".
