There's this girl I'm practically in love with, and she's at a party I organized and invited her to. Well, about 15 minutes ago, she told me that I'm nothing more than a friend to her, and she'll never feel the same way towards me. Now she's cuddling with my best friend. So I feel like absolute shit. What should I do about this?
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Pull your friend and a couple other guys aside and play Halo multiplayer. If you can't have her, then you can make sure all the other guys have something better to be interested in. Also, she doesn't seem that nice if she tells you that you're only ever gonna be friends, then starts getting cozy with another guy in front of you. Maybe rethink your options?
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Go balls out and tell them both how you feel about the whole thing. Be forceful and don't seem like a puss. girls like confidence. Instead of cheering you up DO SOMETHING about it man. Damn. I mean she is there with you. There was a time where I was in the same position as you, and did the same thing you are doing and I still regret it. Gather up some courage and do what you think feels right. Right now.
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That is pretty harsh, just go up to her and make a move on her or something though, if she's doing that to your best friend, you should go up to him, shove him off her, grab her by the arm, and take her to another room to talk to her one on one and get closure. Then she can go mess around like a bitch, but you need to settle this more it seems.
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[quote]she told me that I'm nothing more than a friend to her, and she'll never feel the same way towards me. Now she's cuddling with my best friend. [/quote] That she isn't even making a remote attempt to make you feel any better about the situation is just proof that she's a stuck-up bitch. Move on, there are so many other girls out there that, you know, don't suck ass.
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Easy way to recover, ignore her for 1-2 weeks; usually by then if a girl has ANY interest in you as a human they will try to approach you for social interaction. If not, continue ignoring her or just deal with the fact that she is not romantically interested with you. There is such a thing as a platonic female friend.
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