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6/5/2017 5:21:39 PM
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Getting married / having kids at a "young" age

Yes it's a bad idea

88

No it's a good idea

16

Undecided

18

Personally I think it is after getting to know a woman more who married when she was 16 and gave birth when she was 18. Divorced at 20 and only enrolled in Uni / got employed part time at the age of 24. She realies heavily on support from her family and told me personally her life's been a struggle, fair enough but I hate how she doesn't think it's partly her fault (or maybe she knows it but she's too proud to admit it)

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  • I'd say it depends highly on how long the couple has been together, and their financial situation. For example, I'm getting married in 2 months, and we're both 24 years old, but I also own a house, have a secure career, and have been with her for a little over 6 years. If I were still in college without the means to take care of us financially, having a place to live, or the trust of a fairly long-term relationship, I'd consider it much too soon. As for having kids, having them earlier is probably better for the child if the parents are emotionally and financially capable, and prepared, to do so, since the generational gap isn't as wide and common ground would be easier to come across. However, finding younger couples that are ready for kids is rare, in my opinion.

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