Personally I think it is after getting to know a woman more who married when she was 16 and gave birth when she was 18. Divorced at 20 and only enrolled in Uni / got employed part time at the age of 24. She realies heavily on support from her family and told me personally her life's been a struggle, fair enough but I hate how she doesn't think it's partly her fault (or maybe she knows it but she's too proud to admit it)