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5/28/2019 2:22:11 PM
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Appreciate the sentiment, but I'll never be someone to announce my problems to strangers during a video game when we're all just trying to have fun. I do think its sweet that you want to support others who struggle. I'm honestly just amazed that this is a perspective from people now; growing up, anxiety was just a cop out or a sign of laziness. It was cold, but I've since learned to take care of myself because the people around me either didn't understand my problems or didn't take them seriously. I'm now an adult and I just don't feel comfortable announcing my personal issues with people I've never at least had breakfast with. My advice for others: The only person you can rely on all the time is yourself; like that saying "you need to love yourself first". No one else can understand your struggle or get inside your head the way you can. Learning to live with yourself is the first step to moving forward. That's just how I feel about this though. I hope the people who have yet to get the right help are able to, and maybe the empathy and support here will push them in a positive direction. Best wishes.
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  • [quote]Appreciate the sentiment, but I'll never be someone to announce my problems to strangers during a video game when we're all just trying to have fun. I do think its sweet that you want to support others who struggle. I'm honestly just amazed that this is a perspective from people now; growing up, anxiety was just a cop out or a sign of laziness. It was cold, but I've since learned to take care of myself because the people around me either didn't understand my problems or didn't take them seriously. I'm now an adult and I just don't feel comfortable announcing my personal issues with people I've never at least had breakfast with. My advice for others: The only person you can rely on all the time is yourself; like that saying "you need to love yourself first". No one else can understand your struggle or get inside your head the way you can. Learning to live with yourself is the first step to moving forward. That's just how I feel about this though. I hope the people who have yet to get the right help are able to, and maybe the empathy and support here will push them in a positive direction. Best wishes.[/quote] Couldn't have said it better. I'm an agoraphobia sufferer with ptsd, social anxiety and depression to name a few. My IQ is waaay above average but my head makes me over think and never speak up when I know the best way to go about things which is torture lol love playing destiny. It's where I go to have a social life in a sense, like please but love to play pvp but seems like spoilt little hackers and Modders are ruining the experience more frequently lately. Reports are made but still they play. I play to have fun and I play fair but rage out a lot lol its my way of venting my condition a nd frustration together. People have put me down and belittled me more times than I can remember over a death but what can you do when being shot through walls for pretty much all deaths lol I often say destiny pvp is 80% where you are in the world and 20% skill lol I've deviated a bit but these are issues minor to some but extremely toxic to someone like me. Gaming is fun but to some they enjoy nothing more than to crap all over it and in anyway they can. I got com banned for 2 weeks for calling a streamer out for using wall hacks because I swore in my message. Shouldn't have but I type like I talk lol I blocked him to end the debate but received further messages from him on another account 5mins later! Trolling on other accounts according to the test I had to take is forbidden so what happened to my report for this? Nothing, despite explaining my condition and how harassed I felt. Anyway I've gone on a bit lol this is one of my problems lmao felt good tho. Thnx for letting me... Apologies

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