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작성자: Big Boss
2/9/2014 1:09:43 AM
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How well do you deal with loss?
I try and keep a straight face and show no emotion. Best to let it all out later when nobody is around and you have something nearby to cheer you up with.
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작성자: Cicero J Faraday 2/9/2014 7:44:38 AMI handle loss pretty well. When my father passed, longtime girlfriend broke up with me, and I had to move away from my hometown all last year, I held myself together. It made me a lot more callous, though. I'm still trying to fix that part of myself.
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If we're talking about death, then the only person related to me that's died in my lifetime is my Grandpa, but I was too young to really be sad about it. I remember him quite well, and I also remember crying about it, but I was a little kid so I would probably react far differently if it happened today. As for relationship-ish stuff, I agree with you one-hundred per cent. I was super emotional about it, but I managed to keep it bottled up at the time. When I got home though, I felt like there was no emotions for me to display. I just felt a bit sick in my stomach, but I didn't feel sad or anything, maybe just a tad angry.
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Everyone deals with it in their own way. What's important is you make sure not to suppress anything. Just do what feels right and natural to you as long as you don't hurt yourself or others. Me? I'm not sure what it is I do. I guess I brood mostly, and try to be there for people who are more effected by the loss. Some people need to talk about it, and I try to be the listener for them, which probably also doubles as a sort of "aversion therapy" for me; submersing myself in the feelings and the memories rather than allowing myself to ignore them in any way, shape, or form.
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I don't, the only time I had a loss was when my grandfather on my moms side died. I was too young to really understand, and I hardly ever saw him. My mom gets angry because I tend to not show emotion whenever my dad is in the hospital, but I'm more angry at him than anything because he's the one that puts himself in these situations.
