So in trying to unlink my old steam from my account, but it says I need to sign into said account to unlink. I however don't have access to that steam account because steam support has locked me out and I had to make a new one(thanks steam..) is there a way I can do this? Or get in touch with a moderator to update my account? Or should I unlink my ps account and make a whole new bungie account to set up the transfer?
If you are unable to regain access to your Steam account, then as already noted, you will not be able to remove it from your Bungie profile.
[quote]…..should I unlink my ps account and make a whole new bungie account to set up the transfer?[/quote]
As you do not have cross-save active currently, you can indeed move your PSN account to a new Bungie profile. This will require using a dummy account from another platform, so Xbox/MS, or possibly Twitch, to link to your current profile first. You would then use that dummy account to access your current profile, in order to unlink your PSN account.
And just to clarify, cross-save does not in any way transfer data between accounts. It merely allows access to the active account’s Destiny 2 data, across the linked platform accounts. It is not possible to transfer data from one account to another.