Bungies biggest problem is the game is the community itself. I'm starting to beleive that the developers don't actually play their game outside the studio. Bungie is not doing anything to combat the toxicity of the game. I have been playing since D1 beta and I really don't want to put it down because it's a great story but if it means having to protect my mental health then I am strongly considering it. And I guess the only people I can blame is Bungie for not doing a damn thing to combat this. I shouldn't have to join a large community only then to start a topic in which things go south and people are attacking me and privately messaging me harmful crap. This isn't a game of heros, it's a game ment for bullies. So way to go bungie you found another way to capitalize on hatfullness. This is heartbreaking. P.s. I know people are just gonna laugh at this and it won't stop which only proves my point. No one's cares about anyone.
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작성자: Seraphim Crypto 3/3/2021 7:19:35 AMHey there, I can only repeat what the other positive people have said in this thread: You have many tools at your disposal to limit other people's interactions with you. Always use these tools, and report what breaks the rules of the given platform you interact people with. You don't need to grow thicker skin, anyone can and should expect that they can go to a place without being insulted or harassed for any reason. Having "to grow thick skin" is just ignoring the actual issue, that people think it is okay to attack others they don't even know. It's not. It never is. We can and we should be better than this. This isn't just an issue limited to Destiny, unfortunately, but the platform providers have tools to combat this as well. Use them, and report people. Those who are willing to learn, will learn. Those that are not willing need to be removed. I am now locking this topic so that this thread does not detail any further. We will always stand against bullying of any kind.
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I played since the D1 beta. I have been suffering from bad anxiety and depression for like 8 years now and am on medication. To this day the only parts of the community that are toxic are the following. > The PvP community, specifically the hardcore comp and trials players > The hardcore PvE community, specifically hardcore raiders. > people who perpetuate the class war and class to class hate. That's it. I've met more genuinely kind and funny people who have a dark sense of humour like myself than I hate toxic D bags. I make it very clear when I make a LFG post that we have F'd up senses of humour and just want to chat and have a laugh. And 9/10 times they understand and end up having a laugh, enjoying the experience and cheered them up. When I exit the party, I always say the following... Thanks for the run, have a good day and or night. I'm not going to change the way I act regardless. The community is toxic. Just not as bad as you say.
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12 답변작성자: TheArtist 3/2/2021 1:34:37 PM1. Bungie can't control human nature. You have bullies online because you have bullies in real life. 2. It is not Bungie's responsibility to police this sort of thing. It is really the responsibility of the platform owners, Steam, Microsoft, Sony and Google. 3. PC is an especially wild environment. So if you are sensitive to that kind of toxic behavior and have difficulty defending yourself against it....then you might want to consider playing on Xbox. Since MS takes a stronger stand against it than Steam does. 4. I'm going to ask you a very simple question. "Why do you care what people think of you? Especially random people who know nothing about you, and wouldn't recognize you on the street. THEIR BEHAVIOR IS A REFLECTION ON THEM. NOT ON YOU." Ignore it...and if you can't ignore it...BLOCK the people engaging in it. BUT WHY ARE YOU LETTING THEIR ACTIONS HAVE SUCH A PROFOUND IMPACT ON You? The answer to that question is far more important to you, than any efforts to try to control their behavior. The people who do that, will simply move on to bullying other people in other games, if they can't bully the people playing this one.
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1 답변I read your topic and then some of the responses. I agree with those who have said use the mute and block buttons. In no way should playing a game cause you any mental breakdowns or issues. If so, then you should not be playing. I paly to relieve stress, not create. You should not care what other say if it is not in a positive or meaningful way. Those are Trolls who are everywhere on the Internet. Their lives are meaningless and they only seek out those who they think they can push around. In truth, those are the one's who indeed have real life issues . Let them be them and you just be you and have fun. Most of those are easy to spot as they usually comment with only a few negative words. Or they are the wanna be teachers who critique posts with negativity rather than offering some positive feedback. Myself, I just try and give positive and learn from what I read. Take a breath and try to enjoy the game. Read the forums and do not post if you feel like you are being bullied. I laugh at most on here. Kids will be kids no matter the age. There are some great posts and comments, but there are also many negative posts and comments. That is life.
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If someone is sending you threats, report them through the app. I can agree one thing tho. The community now isnt what it used to be in d1. It seems a bit .... off. Pve community is mostly stiil good and alot of wonderful people willing to help out.
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I’ve seen people saying this a lot so I’ll keep it brief, but they’re absolutely right on this. Block toxic assholes, and try to remember that what they say has little to do with you and a whole lot to do with them. But if you’re looking for a genuinely positive community, especially on PC... I hate to break it to you but this is a gaming - and quite frankly, the internet as a whole - problem. Doesn’t matter which game or platform you’re on there will be toxicity. Hell even games like Mario Maker 2 on the Switch have somewhat toxic communities. My general philosophy is this - I play games to have fun. If playing the game stresses me out or especially if it starts to piss me off, I take a break. Simple as that. If you can feel the game making things worse then you need to take a step back from it. Mental health is [i][b]significantly[/b][/i] more important than a video game. Just don’t expect much from bungie - no company can do much to control the community.
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7 답변Don’t pay attention to most of these people, they don’t know empathy, the sad truth is online people show their true colors, all those ugly people that harass and bully, that is their true nature. They are miserable people who only seek to bring down others in place of their own misery, they lead pitiful lives so they seek to gain power and self esteem by bringing you down, and the very same people are here in these forums trying or either diminish the truth of this or attack you further, the “this is the internet” lines, just further proof of the ignorance and bigotry of people on full display, the lack of empathy is truly disgusting. The internet is a vast place, saying to expect toxicity because it’s the internet is like saying victims of abuse should expect it because x situation. It’s really just victim shaming. Those kinds of people are sadly great in numbers and don’t understand that mental health is a serious issue all over the world and no one takes note to think twice about what they say or do and how it impacts others, i had one individual quite recently get arrested because he sent threatening messages claiming he would shoot me. I’ve had people tell me to commit suicide, I’ve had people threaten me, I’ve had people literally attempt to hack me, I’ve had people steal personal information and stalk me. These are people who are gravely mentally disturbed to do these things. They are the ones more than anything that really need help. Those of use that have the power should promptly record and report these things as effectively as possible and try to make this a safer place for others who come here to experience fun. As gamer we play to escape our lives and enjoy a reality that differs from our own, where we can become whatever we want, when people like this take these extremes not only does it shatter that experience but creates a dark onset that shows how really unstable many people are. Like I said before, the people who do this just because it’s online, they might try to backpeddle and say it’s just a joke, but that’s who they really are inside. And it’s disturbing.
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2 답변Look I care about you. I think mental health is an under-explored topic. So it is in your best interest that this has always existed in both bungie previous games or even NINTENDO games. The problem isn’t the community, it’s the anonymity of the internet. My advise would be to start looking at online interactions different from real ones. Most of them these peoples use games to get away from the stress of everyday, so why should they hold back when they have an issue with their escape?
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Unfortunately that's any online community really and it's easy to vent and act like a complete dunny stain on. Reality is those doing the bullying likely would lose a real life punching match to a flea, and their lives obviously suck that much that they have to resort to acting like tools online. Just have to continually remind yourself these puny absent minded individuals have no real bearing on your life, they likely have nothing in theirs that makes them happy so they resort to online bullying to try to get through their otherwise underwhelming existence. Eyes up guardian, dont let the darkness win 👍
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8 답변Hi, If the situation you described happened here at bungie.net, please use the report function so we can deal with it as soon as possible. You can also report users in the platforms where Destiny is available and on other social platforms, like Discord and Reddit, so their moderators can help you.
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작성자: Kiro - 13 3/3/2021 12:20:12 AMMany guardians have embraced sword logic, those who seek strength will impose it onto other like a great storm or natural disaster. The cold and terrible truth we seek is to become a force of nature with out hatred or love to embrace but one path, the sword.
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[quote]Bungies biggest problem is the game is the community itself. I'm starting to beleive that the developers don't actually play their game outside the studio. Bungie is not doing anything to combat the toxicity of the game. I have been playing since D1 beta and I really don't want to put it down because it's a great story but if it means having to protect my mental health then I am strongly considering it. And I guess the only people I can blame is Bungie for not doing a damn thing to combat this. I shouldn't have to join a large community only then to start a topic in which things go south and people are attacking me and privately messaging me harmful crap. This isn't a game of heros, it's a game ment for bullies. So way to go bungie you found another way to capitalize on hatfullness. This is heartbreaking. P.s. I know people are just gonna laugh at this and it won't stop which only proves my point. No one's cares about anyone.[/quote] That has nothing to do with bungie or destiny. That is between you and whichever large community you were in. What happened to “sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me”?
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I feel like we’re all being trolled right now, checked out your profile. This seems too naive to be real but if it is and you are truly a girl trying to make your way in this environment than here is my advice. Read every one of these replies. Really let it soak in. This is the community in which you are wanting to participate and compete. Make a decision, “is this worth it?” And if the answer is yes then listen to those trying to help and dismiss those who are not. Use the tools that others have suggested(blocking , mute...etc) to minimize the impact others have on you and if you’re truly being emotionally affected take a break until you’re more resilient and better equipped to navigate all of the toxic behavior. Then come back and don’t take anyone’s crap. If this is your game own it. This is not a destiny problem, Bungie is not going to fix it. This really isn’t even a gaming problem. This is an anonymous internet problem. There simply is not much consequence for one’s actions and this particular area is predominantly populated by young males. You are not going to gain much sympathy. So consider yourself a trailblazer and try to find the strength to continually stand up for yourself and your right to be here just like anyone else. Understand that those most toxic are probably compensating for lack of control or achievement in some other area of their life. Use it to your advantage! Pity them. Tell them you’ll pray for them. Kill them with kindness.Soon you’ll find they won’t get to you anymore and actually you might get under their skin a little. Also, the only way you can influence the current culture is to stay in it, so dig in and don’t give up if this is really where you want to be. Good luck!
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I see people helping people all the time. The destiny community is pretty great compared to say grand theft auto. Don't think I've ever encountered anyone helping anyone in that game it's usually just people trolling.
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You get a lot of people bullying on the net and all games have bullys on them things different cumpnes have different rules and thet makes it hard in game bullying you should ask bungle for help but outside the game its the platform createor you report it to so ye