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9/24/2020 8:33:15 AM
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DISGUSTING BEHAVIOUR
after visiting my sister recently I saw the worst side of the players of this game.
my 15 year old nephew was playing one of the pvp modes, he gets invited to a private match, then his team starts abusing and messing with him. he is obviously getting upset as we hear him from the other room. I went in watched for a few minutes then took his headset and jumped into the conversation. as I used to play I can hold my own with toxic players. after a few minutes the reason they are abusing my nephew comes out. one player was on a 9 game win streak and lost the 10th and according to him my nephew didn't get double figures therefore he was the reason his streak broke.
straight up you people who cant handle losing or the fact that others are actually better than you are truly pathetic. but to attack a 15 year old who isn't the type to stoop to this level is absolutely unacceptable.
just who do you people think you are, if he talked trash and brought it upon himself I wouldn't be here. but he isn't the type, he just likes to play.
back when I played I knew the type, but this is next level.
GET IT STRAIGHT
1-THERE ARE PEOPLE BETTER THAN YOU GET OVER IT
2-ITS A GAME WHO CARES IF YOU WIN OR LOSE ITS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN REMEMBER
3-YOU CHOSE TO PLAY WITH THE CIRCUMSTANCES BUNGIE PROVIDE, STOP BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE
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I don’t like those kind of people either but unfortunately encountering them is unavoidable in a game like this. The toxicity in pvp can be absolutely deterring, especially when you can go play some single player game stress free without all the bs. Even when you get good, people will still send hate your way for using “weapons that take no skill” or “cheap tactics” or whatever excuses angry people come up with for losing. My only advice I guess is to find cool people off lfg during Iron Banner or Raids who you might connect with and team up with in other game modes to increase the likelihood of enjoying this game and kicking ass in pvp and pve, while avoiding some of the more toxic components of the Destiny experience.
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Im sorry to hear that. Its crazy how toxic some people can be but I do have to agree with some people when they say that he should have just left. Sometimes it's just best to let those people go and find new people to play with then trying to stay with them.
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4 답변While those kids are di*ks, that's mild compared to how toxic Destiny players, or even video game players overall, can get.
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Why wouldn’t he just ignore, block and report. Chances are if I smack a team in crucible and they invite me to party chat I know they want to talk shit. So I send them a GG message and if they reply with any hate you can report them. The “Thank you for making Xbox a safer place” message your get from Microsoft when someone gets banned is great.
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I have kids much younger than that and they play all kinds of toxic game (D2, apex, fortnite, cod, rs6) and communities are worse. I have taught them to be strong and don't give into this trash toxicity of video game and have fun at all cost. I suggest your nephew does the same as the world is going to keep getting worse every day and decent people like us won't be always around to protect the young ones forever.
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2 답변I'll be honest, my heart does bleed for you here. I personally consider myself decent at pvp (though not in the auto rifle meta XD) but I also know exactly what your talking about since I used to have no skill at pvp. It sucks that players like that are around and I wish I could tell you theres a chance they go away. But I can't say that. They're everywhere. Literally name a shooter that doesn't have that side of the community. I find the best way to deal with them is to not give them what they want, which is a show. He bullied your nephew in the private match to give his friends a show of him getting frustrated. I'd just pick myself from the dust and keep moving forward, don't let some butts get you down when there are other good players out there. Best of luck.
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6 답변Guy the other day told me he hopes me and my family die of cancer because I was cheating. I wasn’t cheating 👍🙂
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People are toxic because they know they are better than most player witch is horrible they should be giving people tips to get better but they would rather waste their time and make them miserable and try to make them stop playing them game completely witch is a sad thing destiny is a game to enjoy in multiple ways but its hard to have multiple ways when some people that make raid team kick you for the smallest mistake or if u do not have a mic people in crucible are toxic because they see someone lower than them even if they are learning the game or just playing to get better or have fun they will be toxic to those people specially they dont do it to people that are better than them because they cant beat them in a private match or in another public match
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Not to be rude...though you may in fact take it as such based off of the other responses I’ve seen...but if you’re not willing to put up with the losers you could find online then don’t put someone you care about in that environment. Honestly I find it weird that you don’t trust your nephew to stand up for himself or show the maturity to ignore such fools as you have described. [spoiler]Sorry, all out of salt.[/spoiler]
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6 답변작성자: nonchalantone 9/25/2020 1:27:23 AMSorry to say, but it sounds like that player lives in your head now.....rent free. Seriously, if you know what types of toxic players play PvP, it's nothing new. Why not just back out of lobby, or simply report and ignore? Your nephew has to understand if he plays this or any other game, what comes with that. Remember, you even said it yourself. "You choose to play with the circumstances that they provide".....right?
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18 답변작성자: Roach 9/24/2020 11:06:35 AMDid you seriously start a post about this non event so you can shout in capitals at people who had nothing to do with it ?? .. What a waste of bandwidth. If this kid is getting all upset at fifteen about some people being verbally abusive to him he has bigger problems than the percentage of idiots in a game lobbing out hurty words. Just turn it off and go about your day. Sitting there crying about it is nothing to be proud of. What do you think teenage soldiers do in a war when someone shoots at them ?? .. get all teary and phone their uncle ?? .. I was three years older than him when I went to the Gulf in 91 and was regularly shot at. With real bullets. And I never cried. Not once. Tell him to turn it off, ignore it and act like the man he nearly is.
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21 답변작성자: DemianLoki 9/24/2020 3:38:20 PMhere is a better idea. pop the pacifier out and tell him to deal, its the internet. no no no, clearly no, we need safe spaces right :P if he can't handle online stuff, get off online stuff. modern problems require modern solutions. EDIT: who the hell is upvoting this garbage crying post in the 1st place :P lol
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3 답변If your nephew can’t take rude comments then he shouldn’t be online gaming with people. Another option he could’ve simply just left the chat. People are who they are even those idiots but it comes with the territory.
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1 답변So did you message them? Get mad at them back? Report them? Why are you here telling us like none of us have experienced this in some way? This just makes it look like you are mad at all of the forum users(many of whom do not play). "STOP BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE" would be some advice I would recommend back to you if that is the vibe you are going for. If I misread something please correct me but you are literally escalating a problem that, in my opinion, you could have dealt with on your own. This is not like a limited to D2 thing, this is a global phenomenon. People are not good, simple as that.
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You people amaze me going easily on a bait as this, he has not played the game since February, has no claims or proof of said 15y old nephew getting bullied or history log of said private match, goes on forum rants about "behavior" proceeds to be toxic all over the place on every reply nearly that is not even toxic at all were people give him constructive advice and he feels attacked tells people they don't read his post and proceeds to act like a 15y old himself just saying
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1 답변Man most of you people are warped as hell and hell is HUGE! Yes he's 15 and thus capable of just quitting and leaving, He's also a kid and blah blah blah. So the F what! The point being made is theirs a better way to life then stressing on games (says someone with WAY to many hours in D1+D2) and flaming out on other people because 'you' cant handle it is the most depressing road one can take on their trip through hell. BLM should be null and mute. AIM (All Individuals Matter) should be the only thing we hear. The point OP is making is grow up and join the human, not animal race and if you question that concept stop reading forum posts and go read Dune!
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There will always be petty folks like that around the PvP section; best to ignore and report them instead of just giving ‘em fuel to heat them up more. That said, gonna have to give a downvote because you’re matching the title with your own behavior based on the replies on this thread. It’s one thing to condemn the wrongful ways of others, but another to just as quickly emulate them.
