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작성자: Nalla
5/22/2020 4:27:58 AM
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Relationship advice pls
So, girl likes me I like her. She is scared to commit because she thinks she isn't good enough and that I will leave her. (Never would leave anyone)
Now her friend (a guy, I am bi) is asking me out and she is super sad and telling me to say yes when I want to be with her.
HELP!
Edit: me and her talked and both decided on getting together in 2 yrs when we are old enough to make it last.
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#Offtopic
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1 답변Smash the chick, if you don't like it get with the dude, not everyday you're gonna get a chance at the cat
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9 답변It's good that you talked, I'm happy about that for you, though age doesn't mean everything. If two people have experienced separate traumas that mature them both, then they can make a relationship work if they want. That being said, don't push furthering a relationship. Just stay close friends until you're both ready to be more, that day might come sooner than you think though. Before I had a relationship, I hated being touched and didn't let anyone close to me (physically or emotionally) outside of very few special cases (Bopsheezi, Lethal, you're in that group whether you like it or not) but that's kinda changed. I still dont like being physically close to many people, but I've gotten a few more friends at school than I used to and I'd say I'm better for it, my relationship has brought out the best in me. That's really a long tangent to say, let the relationship flow naturally. Don't slow it down or speed it up.
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5 답변[quote](Never would leave anyone)[/quote]Thats not a good thing. That’s a problem. You’re not ready to date anyone.
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3 답변작성자: Streak 5/22/2020 7:29:26 PM[quote] me and her talked and both decided on getting together in 2 yrs when we are old enough to make it last.[/quote] Man you’re just like me on that. Me and my friend, we were a thing and then we took a break, and we’re finding the time to get back together with this crazy stuff going on. I’m no expert with relationships, but show that she matters... don’t take my word on that. But in the 2 years of waiting, look at other relationships and see what works, that’s what im doing in my situation. Edit: one last thing, ask yourself this chose who you want. I turned down people so I can still have my someone as an option.
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1 답변It's not complicated. Tell her that she's the one you like and be confident about it. Show her that you are in control of your emotions. That's it.
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5 답변[quote]-blam!- why you need help? Do what's gonna make you happy sugar, you can make time for everybody else after that.[/quote] ^Wyoming
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1 답변Just be honest. You need to talk to her and say exactly how you feel. I'm close to a few people with self esteem problems and you just need to talk to them and let them know that they're worth more than they know.
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3 답변[quote]she thinks she isn't good enough and that I will leave her.[/quote] You just have to do your best to reassure that she is and that you won’t. However, I have to say that it sounds like she’s struggling with some self esteem issues that could complicate your relationship and create a lot of stress for the both of you.
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7 답변You don’t want to be with the guy? Don’t. Tell him you are bi and then go out with the girl.
