I am gay and when I tell anyone, they flinch away like I AM INFECTED AND HIGHLY CONTAGIOUS! LIKE I AM GOING TO MAKE YOU GAY BY BEING NEAR YOU! This actually makes me sad when people put others down for being gay, because love is love! Nothing can change who you like! Love who you want! -blam!- the haters, they are just jealous!
Tell me what you guys think
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11 답변Hi! >~< I’m a bisexual female, and i understand what you mean. Some people act like that when talking about sexuality, but the truth is... theyre not worth it. Everyone has their own opinion on topics like this, but if they cant respect your choices then you and that other person just dont mix. Try to talk to people that you can get along with without being judged. Sexuality isnt a big thing, it shouldnt make a difference to you or anyone what your preference is. Sometimes you dont have to tell people unless its necessary. It doesnt make you the person that you are nor does it define you. [spoiler]Hope this helps![/spoiler]
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There are some people like that. I'll be honest. When I'm told that I do have a moment of "eeehhhhhh" because I don't understand their POV, but I get over it quick. I personally have a couple "gay" friends. I don't push expectations of them hiding it either. In fact, the group will often joke about it. People need to learn that everyone has different opinions. That doesn't change the fact that they are good people.
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1 답변I don't care what you like to have sex with, unless its something i'll laugh at.. in which case I'll laugh at you
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7 답변[quote]I am gay and when I tell anyone, they flinch away like I AM INFECTED AND HIGHLY CONTAGIOUS! LIKE I AM GOING TO MAKE YOU GAY BY BEING NEAR YOU! This actually makes me sad when people put others down for being gay, because love is love! Nothing can change who you like! Love who you want! -blam!- the haters, they are just jealous! Tell me what you guys think[/quote] Dunno. I’m openly gay. I have come out to my friends and family. None have let’s say backed up in disgust. I think it’s a kind of surprise thing. For example when I came out to my mother, she was very surprised, mainly cause I’m not stereotypically gay. I don’t have the camp voice or the over exaggerated fashion sense. I’m more like Leo Snart from Arrowverse Earth-X than Alan Carr. However if people heard the jokes I make they’d probably be disgusted.
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1 답변I'd say you’re one unlucky mofo to meet these twats. But thats about it really, the lgbtq thing has just become radical. But hey, im just a straight white guy, so I guess im automatically a part of said twats and I should just shut up lol.
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Because I find it gross to touch other men. The thought of kissing a man is disgusting to me. So someone who enjoys it, i just get a second of ew, anytime I meet someone who says, I'm gay or I have a boyfriend. But not when a girl says shes a lesbian. Then after that second, it means nothing to me. It's the same thing as someone saying to me that they like eating steamed spinach or liver and onions, or likes drinking bong water. I find those things gross. So I find it gross when someone enjoys those things. But it doesnt make me actually distance myself from them or effect what I think of them.
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5 답변작성자: indigo_rhodes 10/14/2018 1:42:50 AMStraight, white male here. Hi. For all those who are complaining that they don’t like someone’s homosexuality thrown in their face: How do you feel when someone tells you that they are a veteran? My respect for someone who tells me this increases tenfold. The amount of bravery it requires to serve in the armed forces is beyond any courage I could ever find within myself. However, I know people who constantly remind me of their military service and to be completely honest, it sometimes annoys me. They sometimes use it to make me feel as if I am not doing enough, or that their service for my country proves that their political views are automatically correct. I get tired of hearing it over and over. Now, some seemingly completely normal guy comes up to you. He starts of conversation, and at some point he mentions that he is gay. You become immediately annoyed, and your respect for that person decreases tenfold. As straight guys, we can’t really understand the bravery it takes to be openly gay. Imagine knowing that your parents believe that homosexuality is a sin, and that gay people, even if they were the most compassionate, kind people on earth, will just burn in Hell when they die. You have never found girls attractive, although they make up all your friends, and you have had several crushes on guys. You tell your mother and father, who have never shown anything but love for you and have told you that they love you more than anything else. You expect them to react with kindness, as they’ve always done before. But your worst case scenario comes true- they stare at you in shock and can’t find words. After that, they never treat you the same again. They try to tell you that liking other boys isn’t God’s will. Eventually, they throw you out of the house as a teen and you restart your life with no support from them. Now try and tell me that coming out as homosexual doesn’t require bravery. When someone tells me that they’re gay, my respect for them increases tremendously, even as it does for a veteran. When people constantly remind me of their service and I become annoyed, I remind myself of what that means and how I don’t have the right to be irked that they’re proud of it. You should try and treat a homosexual who is proud of their gayness the same as a veteran who is proud of their service, and the world would be a kinder place. To be perfectly clear, I am not equating the bravery required for homosexuality with the bravery required for military service. But I am equating the level of respect that each individual deserves in your interactions with them. Thank you for reading!
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4 답변The issue is that people are miserable -blam!-ing twats with literally no lives so they sit around all day, hating their genitals, thinking about other people -blam!-ing and how they have absolutely nothing to do with it. So instead of killing themselves, they bitch and cry about how other people -blam!- and they don’t.
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3 답변I don't care. I don't really label myself anything. I lean straight, but I can find anyone attractive. What I find obnoxious is people that use their sexual orientation or gender to get attention by making that their sole identifying trait. It's like a vegan constantly telling you they're a vegan. Great, I support it, but shut the -blam!- up about it. But more on topic, I think the US has a pretty big problem with discrimination of all kinds and, not to turn political, but having Trump in office has brought out the worst in some people. I work with a lot of foreigners and I constantly hear co-workers discriminate against them, and I work with a few transgenders and even people I consider friends can't get over that fact. One guy said it was "scary" and another guy said if he were a woman he'd call this person using the women's restroom harassment, because it's "predatory" for a man to be in there.
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6 답변I don’t hate people, or look down on people bc they are gay. I just don’t advocate for it because it’s an unhealthy lifestyle.
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작성자: Ace of Knaves 10/14/2018 5:00:13 AMDon’t have a problem with gay people, love gay people, complete mad lads they are. Gotta a problem with people who make that their entire personality, but’s that’s more to do with peeps with shit personalities if anything regardless of their sexuality.
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Personally, I don't care if someone is gay or not, since their sexual orientation isn't going to make me treat them any different. If they're a decent person, then I'll treat them with respect. However, if they're a jackass like [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7kTtNBVVBFQ]these guys in this video[/url], then I'll treat them with the same respect that they gave me. Link btw: [url=https://www.newsweek.com/trump-supporter-fired-job-after-video-him-berating-black-lyft-driver-goes-1167410]There was a news story about it where the guy who was on the phone ended up getting canned from his job for being a jackass to the driver, and being extremely racist to the driver as well.[/url]
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2 답변I mean... im bisexual. I sit near a gay guy at lunch and he constantly talks about sucking/liking dick and how he likes taking more than giving. I just dont see why all that has to be public. Sex is a private thing between you and the person you are doing it with. I dont hate gay people it’s just the way that some of the ones that im around express it makes me feel uncomfortable.
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2 답변Could not care less what sexual preference someone has, as long as they are decent enough to keep any sexual thoughts about me in their heads and not say that shit to me [spoiler]I also just don't like the furries that actually dress up in fur suits, just way to weird for even me.[/spoiler]