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작성자: Spawn
3/21/2016 3:15:34 PM
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Dating advice for dis guy?
Yo I'm an 18 year old guy, I don't know the stages for dating, like I know holding hands is ok on the first date, I think kissing is good on the 3rd, but I need advice. Seriously though if there are any Casanovas or legitimately smart men who know the steps to dating on here who see this, please educate me with your expertise? Thank you.
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2 답변작성자: SPIDRBITE 3/20/2016 7:39:06 AM1.Intro 2.Attraction 3.Qualifying 4.Rapport 5.Seduction 6.Relationship Balance 1.[spoiler]showing 1.Dominant Body Language 2.High Value 3.Confidense 4.Expirience[/spoiler] 2.[spoiler] 1.Eye Contact and movement 2.Negative&Positive Body Language 3.Banter 4.Voice Tonality 5.Correct Touching 6.Correct personality/mindset for the moment[/spoiler] 3.[spoiler]Knowing when to qualify Ask her or.....[/spoiler]
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1 답변You have to be able to gauge how the date is going [i]is she flirting back, is she making strong eye contact, does she seem bored or distant etc[/i]. If she seems interested find reasons to touch her [i]hold her hand as you guide her through a dark theater[/i]. My best advice is don't get caught up trying to impress one girl, don't put her on a pedestal. You might not hit a home run right away but the more people you date the better your chances. Date many girls and often, learn to be comfortable with yourself. Don't let one bad experience -blam!- with your head, brush it off and go up and bat again.
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Be yourself, unless you're a filthy unwashed mouth breather. Don't try over play who you are because MAYBE eventually a girl is gonna be there when taco bell gives you the shits. Put your best foot forward, if you can make her laugh then you're usually good to go. Make her happy but never cut off your own arm just to do so. Pay for everything on the first date, budget that shit out. Call it misogynistic if you want but if you make her pay for stuff on the first date you're gonna come off looking like a scumbag. Don't rush anything. Read her body language and the moment. If she's giving you signs then go for it.
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7 답변작성자: A Tigerstorm 3/20/2016 4:10:02 PMAlways agree with her no matter what. You will regret it if you piss her off. If she says "let's watch this movie" you need to watch it with her. Good luck!
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10 답변작성자: BearShare02 3/20/2016 4:55:23 PM•Be supportive. •Listen to her drama. •Surprise her with little gifts in the beginning, but don't break the bank.. •Go for walks and hold hands and just talk about whatever, besides ex partners. Usually that means they still have feelings, so get out if they do. (You'll know). •Watch their dumb tv shows, it really does help. She'll tell her friends and they'll be like, oh wow. (Helps build a better connection, plus you can get in on the convo with her and her friends). •Tell her everyday at one point or another how beautiful, pretty, gorgeous or stunning she is. Don't say it too much, it makes all the other times not as special.. •If she has hot friends don't flirt with them infront of her.. Well technically at all if you actually want to be with this girl. Have respect. [b]Always be yourself. If you don't like how something is going, say it. If you're not happy and only making someone else happy, it'll bring out the worst in you over time.[/b] [spoiler]Been with my highschool sweetheart for 9 years, married for almost 3 with a 17 month old son. Wouldn't change a thing here.[/spoiler]
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okay dude seriously I like chivalry it's right for the right girl but most of the time you go all the way on a first date. There aren't boundaries anymore. If she is cool with it bang the First date if not go at HER pace. Just respect the girls wishes and you'll go far kid.
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작성자: Guardian2977 3/20/2016 4:28:12 PMVery simple: be yourself. Be honest, respect yourself as well as her, and talk (do [i][b]not[/b][/i] text on a date--seriously! That's beyond rude). As for rules, you have to gauge her reactions towards you. Generally accepted "assumptions" are if her whole body is facing you, you are close to one another, she touches you with her leg or hand, you periodically place a hand on her hand when laughing or talking, then she most likely likes you. Just be yourself. Don't think too much about it and have some fun. Don't be something you are not. She needs to accept you for who you are, just as much you have to accept her. And if you don't feel it, move on. Everything has pros and cons of being single or in a relationship. You have to decide that for yourself.
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6 답변You do realize you are asking dating advice from many basement dwelling virgins right? Honestly though, there are no stages, just do what feels right in the moment. It's true most women like the man to take the lead on a date (someone above said always agree with her... LOL thats ticket to the friend zone 100%) Be yourself, and don't try to micromanage your behavior. Have fun. If you are, most likely she will be.
