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2/5/2016 9:28:22 PM
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There's 2 girls I can't decide between
Girl one, we'll call: Kate. Now Kate is one of the "popular/pretty" girls. Blonde, perfect body, easy to talk to and outgoing.
Girl two, whom we'll call: Diana. Diana is the opposite of Kate in most ways, not very popular, still really pretty. But very socially awkward and is often having difficulties finding partners/groups for things in school.
Now, a bit about me, I'm a mixture of both, I often do things/spend time alone. But I have no problem at all interacting with small or large groups of people. Everyone knows who I am, and I have a pretty good reputation.
Now here's the actually problem, I'm attracted to both of them, and I've observed them both.. BUT, I've never actually talked to either of them. The only contact we've had were mutual waves/smiles in our classes together. I can't chase both of them because I have one class with both of them (not that I would go for two girls at once.. That's.. Bad)
Most people, obviously would choose the better looking, more well known girl. Both for her looks and the recognition. Which of course I want, but I also want someone I can actually enjoy being with and who I'll have a connection with. I suppose I should actually get to know them both first, for a number of different reasons, I'll leave edits on the situation, but as is, what do you think, Offtopic?
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1 답변Toast/Envelope Or Your problem is that you don't know shit about them besides the basics. Talk to both and see if they accept you initially. If not, "hey does this smell like chloroform?"
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3 답변Ask one of them out, if you have regerts, observe this [url=https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hkY4fXdkzXg]The Switch-Perfect Plan[/url]
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2 답변Don't do the first option. Never works. Too dramatic. Gets dramatic quickly. Will END quickly too. Don't do it. Diana will be MUCH MORE entertaining, and likely a much better choice. In terms of entertainment, I'm not talking sexually. It's always hilarious to see socially awkward people trying to not be awkward. I know, I'm socially awkward myself. And I'm shit in terms of conversations.
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Dude, if the kinda awkward one is really pretty, go for her. One thing that isn't good for a girl in high school is to be popular and pretty. So unless you just want to fight fight off dweeb dick after dweeb dick to keep your girlfriend at you side, go for the awkward one. If she isn't popular there is going to be less competition, your relationship won't be a topic of discussion, and she's not going to be conceited which is a big problem for popular high school girls who are attractive. And all three of those things are cohesive to a good relationship.
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5 답변작성자: JayTG7 2/6/2016 12:06:26 AM
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2 답변It seems to me that you are (in some ways) "the cart before the horse". You appear to be (and I may be mistaken, and if so, I apologize) attempting to apply the idea and standards of monogamy and "faithfulness" onto relationships that you've not even established or built. You find two different people to be interesting and attractive? Then get to know them both. Give them an opportunity to learn about you, if they want. After that plays out (or doesn't), any decision or "choice" that you may have to make, you'd have more information and a better idea of who you are more interested in, who is more interested in you, and then you can start taking steps. Unless you're saying that you only have the ability to interact with one person at a time or that you're planning to go "all in" on one and make them your sole and intense focus. If that's the case, I would still point out there are risks in that. Coming up to someone with the idea of "I've chosen you and you're now the center and focus of all of my attention and energy" can freak people out, put them on the spot and (quite understandably) just plain creep them out. Relax, introduce yourself to either/both, and see what happens from there. No need to "make a choice" when neither really knows you and you don't know either of them well.
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5 답변Choose the one you fell for second. If you really loved the first you wouldn't have fallen for the second. I got that from Johnny Depp 😉
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4 답변This is how you find a ride or die text them saying your moving away we need to hang out tonight who ever shows up is the one you pick Idk if that matches your situation I didn't read your post lol sorry I try .-.
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1 답변DIANA. Shy girls need some love and I can sympathize with them cuz I'm kind of a shy guy myself.
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