Necro rekt

[quote]Dames more like lame of destiny[/quote]

Cat fight!!!

Listen girl. It's nudes or gtfo around here sooooo.... Nudes or gtfo

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One "bad" experience and suddenly you label a whole group of people. Cry me a river. You're part of the problem. Funny thing is you're actually enjoying the spotlight.

First off, the X1 team was chosen not only for their k/ds and crucible skill on our system, they were chosen as solid individuals to represent the Dames as a whole. You would know this if you were on X1. Had they been able to bring the entire team instead of being saddled with DeeJ and Cozmo with no chance to practice and get to know their play style (which apparently consisted of yelling and blink-shotgunning), perhaps they could've done better, but i doubt it. You can't fix something like that on such short notice. Secondly, I was an admin for X1 at the time, and as i recall this fight was about a swordbearer back when they were few and far between. the non-swordbearer party leader apparently didn't like the repeated wipes even though swordbearer had passed herself off as a total expert and able to get any team through while the swordbearer kept blaming her mistakes on the team, so after a bit of discussion or a comment by another fireteam member was misunderstood, swordbearer bailed. Then a fight broke out on the Bungie group wall in which neither party had clean hands but no good faith was assumed at all, the both of you went at it hammer and tongs as equal participants. It took the admin team a while to get it under control because in all honesty, most of them had zero experience handling this sort of thing in a forum or group setting, and it had never happened in a Dames group before. Congratulations, yours was the first catfight we had ever experienced. Because neither side had clean hands at all, the eventual decision was to get the both of you to calm down, stop bringing it up on the group walls for the peanut gallery to weigh in on (when it was none of their business and only making the situation worse) and to end that portion of the discussion in the groupme chat as well. Both sides resisted quite vigorously, but eventually complied when Belle handed down her verdict, which boiled down to 'idk who started it, but shake hands and apologize for being terrible to each other, and if you don't want to do that much, you don't deserve to be a Dame'. Dames are about supporting and being excellent to one another, not tearing each other down like hyenas over a carcass. In no way were you two ever forced to play together again, you could have avoided each other and gone to an admin or used the Report form as asked if you had experienced any harassment over the issue and they would have done their best to protect you, up to and including possibly booting any members who wouldn't let the issue die and allow bygones to be bygones (provided proper evidence to do so was there, of course). Granted, this all went down long before we had a proper Code of Conduct in place with enforceable rules (which is another story for another day and led to my eventual stepping down as admin), but i repeat: neither party, not the swordbearer nor the fireteam leader, had clean hands by the time this was over. The both of you were absolutely horrid to each other, put the PS4 clan into a short period of chaos, and with this post here you have well and truly have confirmed that you are not a woman who can contribute constructively within a community of other women who want to have fun, build each other up, teach each other, help each other grow. All you apparently want to do is tear people down, and if that means you did eventually leave the clan, i'm sorry to hear you couldn't grasp the idea of comraderie we Dames share with one another but i do still hope everything works out for you in the future. [spoiler]i know i'm going to take heat for this, but idgaf, i can't stand a martyr[/spoiler]

Well yeah, women cut -blam!-ing deep with their words. Why do you think (most of) us guys avoid them as much as we can.

Oh man you pointed out that some females are mean and not good at destiny. You must be hitler, satan, and a mysoginist. How dare you be sexist to all women by criticizing a select group of them. you're worse than hitler and should die and fite me m7 so I can wreck you irl cause my mom who is my only female friend told me to say this. [spoiler]this is what every single white night and femistatist sounds like right now[/spoiler] [spoiler]btw rekt[/spoiler]

Why do I keep seeing lame ass post about this dumb ass shit who gives a -blam!-

I really wish when I checked the forums I wouldn't see any more nonsense about these self righteous bums called the Dames. You girls SUCK. Your clan sucks. Your teamwork sucks. I could find 5 random girls on here and have a better clan than you. You make female gamers look petty and idiotic. You give us a bad name and rep. Just stop and think about how every person will think about us "female gamers" after this toxicity. If you want to talk smack to me you look me up GT is TBH I Hate Me 2 and you 1v1 me or have a 6v6. P.S to the girl yesterday that posted she was a"war vet". I'd like to say that we don't dangle that in the air to prove something. We play, that's how we prove it all.

Dude your an asshole i think you should respect them, not be jerks since they are girls also everyone sucked at a point and so did you and now that this stupid sexism is going around its killing our community You should be ashamed of yourself and everyone who agrees to this post

Jesus Christ can the women keep this bickering shit where it belongs aka the kitchen

Cattiness** And, also, are you not talking smack about people right now? Hypocrite much?

Before I get hate for saying my gender... I'm doing it for this certain perspective. But then again you aren't getting hate on this post so... Good shit OP As a girl I don't understand a Female only clan. I mean you can't have a Male only clan (other then dads of Destiny which is different) without a damn hellfire. Besides I only have 1 girl on my friend list and I know her I'm real-life. Almost every other girl I run into is either: A- The alpha female and just talks shit as soon as she know you are a girl Or B- The attention seeker that surrounds herself in thirsty white knights and giggles like a school girl all day. So yea. I bet they are assholes.

I joined the clan but there seems to be no activity. Plus I'm on the Xbox One, so I've never met most of the Dames. Still, for someone who tries to call them out for being "caddy", your last comment proves you are just the same.

"Dame of destiny, more like lame of destiny". Is that the best insult you could come up with?

I'm a girl as well and although I've never played with or been a part of their clan I have heard nothing but terrible things about them as a group. No ones ever singled out one member, they've always just told me that I'd never want to play with them or be in their clan. Honestly I don't understand the idea of an "all girl" clan, it's just further segregating the genders in gaming when all I want is to play- I don't care who with lol

The leader followed 2 of my friends on twitter for 5 minutes just to look at 10 tweets and favorite like 2. To make it worse she then decides to unfollow them. These friends are also large DoD fans even for being male. Not only could she have easily used another Twitter account and do it anonymously, but she had to use her well known Twitter and get my friends hopes up.

no sane man would ever want to be in such clan even if they allowed male members , imagine all the gossip and secret hate going on , imagine if another teammate has the same shader on during a raid - that must lead to huge drama :D

Yeah a safe place with no males allowed from all the "sexist" males. Ironic much?

"Why do girls have boobs..?" [spoiler]so ya got something to look at while you're talkin' to em! Ha [/spoiler]