Time to admit it. I despise my own gender. Ever watch "real" housewives? I weep for our species. The smart thing to do if you're a girl is just avoid other women because they pretty much all suck. Self absorbed, back stabbing, needy, grasping jealous little assholes whose parents should have had more discipline with them. The sun does not shine out of your arse, despite what you may think. Guys please stop giving women like this attention because it's ruining our entire gender. If she acts like a bitch - tell her she is a bitch. And why does every single girl feel a need to act like she is better than every other girl? Its not a competition! Women act like common whores nowadays and scratch and fight over dudes that aren't even that into them because they want the attention so bad. Pathetic. Sigh. Is there any hope?
Sincerely,
Super fed up with most other girls.
EDIT: WOW. so many responses! Holy cow guys my phone has been blowing up. Lol. Apparently im not the only one who feels this way.
EDIT2: I would also like to add I am well aware that this is a generalization. I know not EVERY girl is mean. And i have met a few nice ones even in this thread. My point is that it seems so rare nowadays to run into genuinely nice people. Its not just a problem with women, its a problem with society as a whole. The world is full of assholes it seems. Im very thankful for the good people in this world, but i wish they werent such a rarity.
Edit 3: had to turn off my notifications! Lols. Che ked and read a bunch while i was away. I find it encouraging how most people understood what I was trying to say. How women in society are on a downward spiral, and how society in general is as well. (This post was very [i]obviously[/i] a frustrated rant to begin with. Had obviously just had a horrible experience.) And then this thread just completely blew up! So basically I'm getting a lot of males who agree with me and then every now and then an irate and angry female responding in a "how [i]dare[/i] you" tone. So in conclusion I think that a lot of the men responding have encountered what I was originally referring to,and shared their frustration. Some may be "thirsty" as they have been accused of- the world will never know. Some are here simply to try and make me feel like a "hypocrite". I still stand by my opinion that most girls have a self centered and entitled mentality, lack proper manners and they are hurting their image by living that way. If you are coming on this thread just to try and virtually claw my eyes out you are only further proving my point.
Anyway thank you for all the input regardless of what it was. In the end we trended not only number one in offtopic but number three in the entire Bungie forums for a while! First time that ever happened for me. It was really great getting to meet all of you :-)
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11 답변Sigh. [b]Wall of text inbound.[/b] I also felt this way when I was a teenager and even into my early twenties. One day I realized that I hadn't felt that way in a long time. I couldn't pinpoint when I stopped thinking it. Probably it was around the time that I realized that my behaviors weren't as wondrous as I had imagined them. Some of the things I used to say about other women make me feel very ashamed now... I think it's truly sad that you said "you can tell who the mean girls are by who is offended" in another comment. More accurately, I think you can tell which of us have women in our lives that we adore (or at least respect) by who doesn't agree. I have a mother, two grandmothers, two sisters-in-law, 5 sisters, 24 female employees of varying ages/ethnicities/socio-economic groups, and at least 20 other women I know very well that don't fit your ideas. In fact, I meet hundreds of people each week in my line of work and it is rare that I run into someone who is as you describe. Typically the assholes I meet are assholes because they discount the worth of others based on imperfect information. True enough that I meet a lot of people who aren't exactly philanthropists and saints, but neither are they "bad people." They're simply people making people mistakes. Do you truly believe that Real Housewives of Wherever is an accurate representation of [i]anything[/i] besides weird tv? What about Hell's Kitchen? Is it a good representation of everyone in the food business? (hint: no.) I was in Iceland a while back and many Icelandic folk told me that they perceived Jersey Shore to be a legitimate representation of the USA. Do you think that's fair? I don't think it is. And one day when you think about this post it will make you cringe. Tl;dr- I think that "most" of 3.6 billion women are not the bitchy whores that you proclaim them to be.
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4 답변As a woman I find this demeaning. If you don't like playing with an ENTIRE gender don't you think the problem might be with you?
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2 답변I will admit, I more or less had the exact same view point as you, only it was towards my own race.(I'm African-American or just black by the way) Apparently, people in New York City, Brooklyn in particular have a specific out look on how they think most blacks should act. I.e the whole -blam!- Bitches get Money lifestyle. Growing up around that lifestyle and then having your own race ridicule you for not adhering to it made me absolutely hate Black people. Or he stereotypical ones. To the point where I often used N*gger in its derogatory form, because that what they were to me. Ignorant N*ggers who couldn't make logical or reasonable decisions. All they cared about were over priced sneakers and brands,gangs, hoes, etc. It wasn't until a few years ago that I realized that having that outlook on them wasn't going to change anything. I was just being toxic because I felt that I was superior to them and they were beneath me. I realized that it was the wrong way to go about things. And I actually felt pretty ashamed. TL;DR In same boat as you with black people, take the good away from the bad, look for the diamonds in the shit pile.
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I am a boy but I have an older sister and when she was still living at my parents I saw and heard some strange stories about friends who were nice until they either left there friends for boyfriends or just completely were immature. Odd world we live in
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9 답변작성자: Slim Shady 7/20/2015 11:56:15 PM
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1 답변This post is sad, you can't hate your own gender without hating part of yourself. This literally seems like a ploy to get guys to like you. I get the feeling you're the one girl who gets pissy as soon as you discover you're not the only female in the party... And for all your complaints against women I've run into just as many dudes who pull the exact shame shit. Then then there's the whole -blam!- boi brand of bullshit too. Terrible people suck regardless of their gender. And believe me the world is chalk full of them.
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작성자: afanoflafear 7/19/2015 6:26:39 PM[quote]Guys please stop giving women like this attention because it's ruining our entire gender[/quote]I agree 100% and personally I don't give them attention, well not anymore at least [quote]If she acts like a bitch - tell her she is a bitch.[/quote]Now back just a second, I recall a skinny white kid telling a Tongan girl a bitch back in school, her buff older brother found out and lets jist say he didn't show up to school for the next few days. [quote]And why does every single girl feel a need to act like she is better than every other girl?[/quote]Because she has got bigger boobs? [quote]Is there any hope?[/quote]Personally I love the generation I'm living in and always will, as long as paying woman for sex remains legal in Australia.
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9 답변I find it funny how you're generalizing the whole female population based on [i]probably[/i] a few mean girls you came across in high school or something.. I couldn't be bothered reading through your essay of hatred since negativity really isn't worth my time but let me just put this here: how do you expect men to stop demeaning us, slut shaming us and calling us names when YOU, A FEMALE, can't? The only way we'll get peace is when girls stop attacking eachother and being so -blam!-ing catty towards eachother all the damn time. Please, reevaluate your words and your attitude. And stop spreading your negativity towards the female gender on the Internet. You're acting a bit like an 'asshole' yourself, now aren't you? :)x
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2 답변Yea, girls are your competition. A lot guys don't like other guys too for the same reason.
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2 답변작성자: tinkerbobv8 7/16/2015 11:49:40 AMI live in a house full of girls and I'll tell ya, some days I want to bitch slap all of them in the face with a steel chair.