원본 게시물 출처:Spread the Word
I've thought about it several times, I did self harm too. I lost my friend last year right when school started. I almost failed my classes & almost didn't graduate this year. I couldn't focus on anything, my mom told me to "get over him" like as if he was a family pet or something. She made things worse by not being supportive, I wasn't close to him but he made a huge impact. I still miss him, I try to talk about him when the moment is right. He would have been 18 this year & would have graduated...
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[quote] I still miss him, I try to talk about him when the moment is right. He would have been 18 this year & would have graduated...[/quote] Talk about him whenever and wherever you can. From experience this a good coping mechanism. Don't let people try and supress your thoughts or feelings. I have been through one of the worst experiemces a parent can ever go through, suffering from PTSD and if anybody ever told me not to talk about her I would explode.... but.... I have a fantastic network or friends and family and we talk all the time about my daughter. If your moms not being supportive then counselling is recomended you don't need to talk about your feelings. Use the time to talk about your friend, what you used to do, and most impotantly deal with your emotions. The more you talk the easier it is to talk about them.
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I found out a few weeks ago it's due to culture & religion from why I cannot talk about him... I'm super angry I couldn't attend the memorial this Saturday. But I do my best to get through & draw or write about things... But thank you for sharing your experience with me, cannot imagine how tough it really is...