I've had the game since launch and I play with the LFG community regularly. Haven't ever met a girl there. I've seen a few in the crucible though.
-"Check out my YouTube channel. Same as my PSN"
We are here. Outside of my friends I don't talk much. Did 2 nightfalls with lfg guys the other day and they didn't realize till the end I was a woman. I'm not looking for a date, attention, or drama. I just love gaming and even though I've never had a problem with guys I'm playing with I do pitch my voice lower and keep my communication strictly game related. Easier that way.
True story:
She was nice and liked cats, early twenties, but one of our Clan members scared her away with his advances. Haven't played with her since she left our Clan.
Because they usually dont speak. Not suprising seeing how the guys are. Im am suprised that you havent seen the attention whores with a "gamer girl" name variant.
Met one at the original Loot Cave. Another is in one of the Iron Banana groups I team with. Might have been a random one or two in VoG Raid groups last year it's hard to say.
True story:
I put a post on destinyteamfinder and people sent me msgs for invites to be carried through nightfall as i had a bounty and was sitting at the final boss. Invited 2 people in one was a chick, we got on well she now plays with us most days and is having sex with one of the guys we play with im a real life cupid.