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작성자: Caffeine0verlord
5/13/2015 6:41:57 PM
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Players with Significant Others IRL.
As a dude with a really awesome girlfriend, it can be difficult to create a solid balance between giving her the attention she deserves, and the time you need to put into Destiny in order to thrive. Fortunately, she's a huge bookworm and doesn't mind sharing the couch while I farm/raid/etc as long as she has her own entertainment. In your experiences, has Destiny put a damper on your relationships? Or does your lady/man not really care, so long as the two of you have "you time" every now and then?
EDIT: over 100 responses! I love the mostly positive feedback! Keep on lovin' guardians!
EDIT: Nearly 200 responses. Holy crap. Great dialogue going. Now I'm curious for those of you that play with your SOs, do their or your misadventures (maybe one of you is much better than the other) cause tension, maybe an argument or disagreement between the two of you?
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It's kinda funny that you have to specify irl. With that being said my girl hates destiny. I try to get her involved by talking about it or telling her when something cool happens but she just gets this look like she wants to kill me.
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2 답변Well I play [i]with[/i] my boyfriend so I could comfortably say it works out pretty well lol
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2 답변[b]Significant others IRL[/b] Exotic rocket launcher Perk 1: grenades and horseshoes Exotic perk : significant other- rockets will track targets even when not aimed. On impact the rocket fired will explode twice
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1 답변My fiancée and I play together, side by side gaming with her is really cool. Started when I would get home from work and all my bounties would be done.... Ended up getting her an Xbox so we could play together.
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4 답변Married 5 kids Work 5am - 5pm 5 days only get to play when everyone goes to bed . Reset night wife goes to bed early but most other times it 9pm - 2am playing . But still have managed 3 x 32 so happy with that
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7 답변I was doing the sword on Crota the other night and I went invisible and he killed me. I said "I was totally invisible". She said "that's how I feel when you play this damn game."
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She's good about it, but I put her first. If we have something planned, and my friends text me seeing if I want to raid, nightfall or do PvP, I'm not going to change my plans on her. She usually works evenings so it works out well enough.
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Married 11 yrs. Together for 17. 3 kids. 2 jobs. 3x lvl 32s 3x Gallys ;-) Its constant work grinding but i usually wait til my kids are sleeping. It takes its toll on my relationship not gonna lie. Thing is, its my only steady hobby to let loose and just relax solo. I dont go out drinking or staying out all night with the fellas. I work hard & deserve to relax. I recently cut my time down to Tuesday & Friday night. I usually wake up @ reset (5am NY time) and run strikes/crewsybil to make up the rest.
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9 답변My fiancé and I already had issues before this game, and it only seems to have made them worse. No matter how much time I give her, she always seems to feel like it isn't enough. And there's no compromise either. It's either I don't play, or she gets mad. Thing is, I don't even play that much. [spoiler]And five years is a long time to be putting up with this. [/spoiler]
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My wife and I have been together for over 15 years. She has her PS3 and I have my own. There are some games that we play together. She is currently playing Ni No Kuni, a JRPG. When we started dating we would play Final Fantasy 7. But it doesn't matter if it's tinkering on your car, hanging with your bros, or fishing, they get mad when you don't show them attention.
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3 답변It's pretty easy, man. Just don't be a f***ing nerd, and pay attention to your significant other. If you see your relationship as a major obstacle in the pursuit of collecting imaginary guns and clothes/shaders to play dress-up, then your priorities are shit.
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작성자: Queen of Sidhe 5/13/2015 11:23:21 PMlol, omg, the relationship didn't last long but I did that. We were on different systems so we couldn't play together so I'd just read or write while she played. It kinda weirded her out because she wasn't used to someone wanting to just be with her while she was gaming. - at the same time, she would just sit there to be with her current SO, so I think it was just the reversal that weirded her out
