Ok. So I'm 37 years old and have always been an avid gamer. I am also a married man with a mortgage, car payments and a job. My gaming is a hobby that is well deserved. Perhaps more than the ones who insult adults for gaming and have their games handed to them by mommy and daddy. Here's the thing... My generation is the first to grow up with console gaming so there is no comparison to an older generation. No one told me at a certain age I was supposed to stop liking gaming. The story and subject matter is mature. I'm not playing children's games. So I think that trying to insult an adult for gaming is one of the weakest insults you can drop. It doesn't bother me but I have heard it a few too many times.
The reason I bring this up now is earlier I was in a Vault of Glass raid team with what I thought were mature teens/ young adults. We were fighting Atheon and one of these douche's friends pops in and immediately starts insulting the group and calling us kids. So I said, "Why don't we focus on talking about the raid we're in for now?". The douche starts getting smart so I mention the fact that he came in insulting us and calling us kids when I'm in my 30s. That's when the lame insult comes into play. And then the arguing starts. Douche's friend tells me to shut up so douche can keep going on about how cool he was for hitting level 32 in the first week of the Dark Below. Had I been thinking clearly at the time, I would have called him out on that supposed 32 in first week comment. I know that no one reached that level in the first week.
There is nothing to support the insult that adults shouldn't be gaming. Last I checked, over 50% of adults played games in one form or another. Even if it's on their phones. So to all the kiddies out there who use this insult, it makes no sense. I've just gotten it a few too many times now and had to speak out.
How many of you are adult gamers out there? Have you been insulted for revealing your age? At what age exactly was I supposed to turn my nose up at gaming? I didn't get the memo apparently. How many of you think this is a totally reasonable hobby for adults? Do you ever lower your age to avoid criticism? Why should we feel like we have to just because there are ignorant, immature kids out there who use their parents as an example for the average adult? I know quite a few people who game with their dads. Does that make their dad a loser?
Please feel free to comment on this matter. I really want to hear from the adults out there so I know I'm not crazy. Let's put this ridiculous insult and way of thinking to rest. And if you're a kid and comment on here, it shouldn't be negative since you have no experience in the matter. You will be shamed.
Edit: I'm so glad to see so many people responding! Hopefully this will spread. I've had some great discussions with you people. Thanks and keep it up!
Edit 2: Still going strong! The word is spreading. Thanks so much everyone. So much insightful discussions and comments. Except for the one troll.... But honestly, I expected nothing but comments like his. Thanks community for showing positive support.
Edit 3: I'm so humbled by all of the responses and discussion in here. I didn't expect even 20 comments but, over 500?! This is great. With all of this respectful discussion going on I would like to think someone at Bungie has noticed. I'd like to hear from someone with Bungie. Let us know what inspired them to go into this field, how old they were when they started gaming etc.
I never intended for kids in general to take grief from this forum. If I were to make negative comments about all younger gamers I'd be no better than the kids that insult adults. You friendly young gamers know who you are. I've defended quite a few in here.
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2 답변Dude I met a 70 year old while playing wow. Games can bring the world together. If everyone just stops focusing on the stupid shit.
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Im 16, and about 25/30 people I have on my friends list are older than 25. The others is mostly school friends. I like playing with mature people. I sometimes help out a group of really young kids and most of the time I leave. They always go "awe my dude is better" and swear as much as they can. To me, their voice alone is bugging my sanity. Holy crap.
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Im 16, and about 25/30 people I have on my friends list are older than 25. The others is mostly school friends. I like playing with mature people. I sometimes help out a group of really young kids and most of the time I leave. They always go "awe my dude is better" and swear as much as they can. To me, their voice alone is bugging my sanity. Holy crap.
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I'm 14 and I'm not gonna say I can relate because, well I'm 14 but I see where your coming from. When running raids or nightfalls I prefer a more mature fire team and there is nothing wrong with being older and playing games, games are fun and if you have a job and a family and a mortgage, and you still find time to play, you should not be getting grief from spoiled -blam!-s who think older people can't play games. Myself, I bought all my stuff myself, my ps4, destiny, even my tv, and I worked for it all, without having to worry about bills, so when I play with an adult who is taking time out of there day I show respect, and any other young people out there should do the same.
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2 답변I'm 35 with a wife and 2 kids, I know what they're like, it's just how they are, I use smart ass comebacks on them myself, put them on their place you know. Gamers can be of all ages, we saw that from the elderly woman who played GTA.
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I'm 34 and have been gaming since I was around 7 years old and as I've gotten older the games graphics and playability of these consoles have gotten better so hell yeah I'm going to keep gaming until I'm too frail to hold a controller but by then we'll probably have games we control by thought which will be awesome. What I'm sick of is getting kicked out of games because I'm not light level 33+. It's like, I've got a job. I play to have fun not to become some elitist snob looking down on the peasant level 32s and below
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8 답변Bro I'm 13 but I understand I've been screeched at for being to good ( like wtf how are you too good ) at kicking ass. I was using a green hand cannon cuz I was bored and did a challenge. The kid was using the thorn and had the worst k/d( hot the friken hell do you do that it's the thorn.) long story short I was doing better so I got reported ( figures ).
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2 답변I'm 15 and I will raid with anyone, some of the best players I know are are over 30, including my friends dad that bought two consoles so they could play together his dad kicks his butt in crucible lol
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4 답변I'm a teenager, and honestly I fully support diversity, I think it's cool for guys your age to play games, and some of those stupid ass holes of kids are so stupid for saying those things to you guys
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1 답변I am not an adult I am 16, but I can understand your frustration at having to deal with a little [i]shiesskopf[/i] throwing insults at you that sound like they came out of the recycling bin 20 too many times.
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3 답변[quote]Ok. So I'm 37 years old and have always been an avid gamer. I am also a married man with a mortgage, car payments and a job. My gaming is a hobby that is well deserved. Perhaps more than the ones who insult adults for gaming and have their games handed to them by mommy and daddy. Here's the thing... My generation is the first to grow up with console gaming so there is no comparison to an older generation. No one told me at a certain age I was supposed to stop liking gaming. The story and subject matter is mature. I'm not playing children's games. So I think that trying to insult an adult for gaming is one of the weakest insults you can drop. It doesn't bother me but I have heard it a few too many times. The reason I bring this up now is earlier I was in a Vault of Glass raid team with what I thought were mature teens/ young adults. We were fighting Atheon and one of these douche's friends pops in and immediately starts insulting the group and calling us kids. So I said, "Why don't we focus on talking about the raid we're in for now?". The douche starts getting smart so I mention the fact that he came in insulting us and calling us kids when I'm in my 30s. That's when the lame insult comes into play. And then the arguing starts. Douche's friend tells me to shut up so douche can keep going on about how cool he was for hitting level 32 in the first week of the Dark Below. Had I been thinking clearly at the time, I would have called him out on that supposed 32 in first week comment. I know that no one reached that level in the first week. There is nothing to support the insult that adults shouldn't be gaming. Last I checked, over 50% of adults played games in one form or another. Even if it's on their phones. So to all the kiddies out there who use this insult, it makes no sense. I've just gotten it a few too many times now and had to speak out. How many of you are adult gamers out there? Have you been insulted for revealing your age? At what age exactly was I supposed to turn my nose up at gaming? I didn't get the memo apparently. How many of you think this is a totally reasonable hobby for adults? Do you ever lower your age to avoid criticism? Why should we feel like we have to just because there are ignorant, immature kids out there who use their parents as an example for the average adult? I know quite a few people who game with their dads. Does that make their dad a loser? Please feel free to comment on this matter. I really want to hear from the adults out there so I know I'm not crazy. Let's put this ridiculous insult and way of thinking to rest. And if you're a kid and comment on here, it shouldn't be negative since you have no experience in the matter. You will be shamed. Edit: I'm so glad to see so many people responding! Hopefully this will spread. I've had some great discussions with you people. Thanks and keep it up! Edit 2: Still going strong! The word is spreading. Thanks so much everyone. So much insightful discussions and comments. Except for the one troll.... But honestly, I expected nothing but comments like his. Thanks community for showing positive support. Edit 3: I'm so humbled by all of the responses and discussion in here. I didn't expect even 20 comments but, over 500?! This is great. With all of this respectful discussion going on I would like to think someone at Bungie has noticed. I'd like to hear from someone with Bungie. Let us know what inspired them to go into this field, how old they were when they started gaming etc. I never intended for kids in general to take grief from this forum. If I were to make negative comments about all younger gamers I'd be no better than the kids that insult adults. You friendly young gamers know who you are. I've defended quite a few in here.[/quote] I'm 35 and played my whole life. I've played about a week now never using a mic yet. I'm trying to improve my skills and get better gear and weapons first. But I Love playing destiny and I'm not embarrassed because of my age even though my wife argues with me for playing it cuz she thinks it's childish lol . I Love the competition and the challenge as well as the camaraderie I feel with my teammates.
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2 답변I am 13 and play destiny with older people but there are some people who are dicks and I understand my age group is annoying but I'm chill and my friends are to but there are annoying kids
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I'm 32 and I know for a fact your weren't around when Atari first came out( I know atari wasn't the first but it was most well known at the time) . But I know what your saying . A little history on video games for anyone reading this . Video games first came out and was being sold for adults (not children). This was sold as a fun stress reliever for the working man who had a long stressful day at work . Anyways, enough of that . Just remember that they are kids and when I say kids I mean immature snot nosed little shits . They are raised nowadays without any manners what so ever. Best advice for you is to just avoid lobbies that are filled with kids . I do and I don't have that problem and it's because I don't allow myself to be in that situation . Also If your on ps4 feel free to send me a friend request . PSN BLUE--FOX82 . Good luck man .
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2 답변I'm 52 years old and I have a son almost as old as you. He's 32. You want to come right down to it MY generation was the first to be around video games consoles. :-) anyways Arguing back to kids only shows your stooping to their level. You want to be mature?? ..First, act it!!
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3 답변Had a kid tell me one time that I sucked in pvp, I'm 40 and he had a crappy lagging connection. I message him and he invites me to his party. When he and the rest of his 13 year old friends finished all their high pitched squealing, I tell him to bring two of his friends over to my fireteam and we will do a rumble match with my two clan mates. After all their screaming about wrecking old people, they got destroyed. They stayed in after the first match, but 2 minutes into the second they all left. About a minute later I get a message calling us cheaters, when we did nothing of the sort. They really had no idea how to play a real one on one match up, and got owned. I didn't use profanity, but we did tea bag each of them every time we killed them just to prove the point that they were nowhere near as good as they thought they were and shouldn't be tea bagging. It just pisses people off.