My whole clan is filled with them. I hope they dont see this or i will get in trouble and they will be mean to me :/

[quote]... I've raided with some àssholes. Tell me stories about your raid experiences.[/quote] I'm stuck with myself. So all the time ;)

I was raiding with this one group with my friend!" when it all started. When we got to atheon one of our players left, so a new guy joined us. This guy turned out to be an a**hole! A few if our lower levels lepton getting killed in the portal or by sups, and he says okay whoever dies first gets kicked! I'm thinking "You just joined, what gives him the right to do that?" And then my friend died. He goes " okay, see ya!" But I conviced him to have another chance. And then somebody else died! He says " whoever has the worst gear gets kicked!" And of course this is my friends first raid and he gets kicked!

If you have never raised with an A-hole. Then chances are, you are the A-hole.

I was "that guy" once. To give a little about my character, my standard raid weapons is the Epilogue, Icebreaker, and Corrective Measure at 300; I was also going on my 30 Warlock. Knocking out the raid at early, I usually help out anyone who asks and am really patient about it... all except this one time. I was invited to help this clan with Atheon on hard mode. After joining in orbit, I discover that one of the people had to briefly step aside to do something. We all wait. While we are waiting, I'm doing miscellaneous tasks around the house with my headset still plugged in. I usually ignore the sexist and racist comments made, however, the sincerity of these comments start to get under my skin. I'm staying silent and gritting my teeth because well... I didn't care. After waiting 10 minutes, I start making passive suggestions to find a replacement. They assured me the other member was going to be back momentarily. 20 minutes pass... still nothing; I don't mind, since I'm still doing other things. 30 minutes, I'm now sitting back down waiting for the thing to start, still nothing. 40 minutes after the original join time, the person finally appears. After complaining about the episode of The Walking Dead, he needs to stop in the Tower to grab weapons. After having to put up with blatant racism and waiting for this guy to finish watching a TV show, I just think "eff it, let's go!". When loading into Atheon, I notice that the party consisted of two 30s, three 29s, and a 28; meh, it's been done before. On the first run, we had one of the people fire a rocket while in the relic shield. The second ended up being a wipe due to some people not leaving the middle in time. By the third wipe, I start to investigate people's equipment. Low and behold, one of the three, who have been talking smack and spewing racial slurs, is using a brand new Fate Bringer and Ghallajorn. After pointing it out and asking him to switch to some of his 300 weapons, they all start inspecting me and talking crap. After trying to explain how the Ghallajorn is just another rocket launcher until it gets the Wolf Pack rounds, they all just yell over me repeatedly calling me a scrub; and spouting how his Ghallajorn is still better than my 300 Corrective Measure. I ended up backing out of the raid, telling them that their attitude is what is destroying this generation, then threatened to delete the person who invited me to the run. After cooling down and realizing that I misdirected some anger, I did message the person who invited me and apologized for backing out. I did make a point to him about not wanting to interact with those kids again and extended an invite to beat Atheon with my normal raid crew.

We had a friend of a friend join us one time because one of our regular raid team was not on and before we started he bragged constantly about how good he was and how much of a god he was with the relic. All the way through he moans and complains that the rest of us are doing things wrong and taking up the wrong positions (we all have well over 20 full completions by the way so know what we are doing). If any of us got killed he threw a girly hissy fit but everytime he died (and he died more than the rest of the team put together) he blamed it on some mystery glitch or enemies lagging.

So this happened yesterday: normal Raid... 1. We opened the raid doors as a 4 Man Team (went quite well :) ) 2. we waited at the first chest for two friends to join 3. a lvl 30 girl joins and everyone starts acting like an idiot, because girl gamer.... (i never understand this) 4. she acts as a complete asshole, while we are waiting on top before the confluxes for the sixth guardian to join 5. she pushes a guardian down the cliff, so he dies. 6. another friend flies down to the dead one to revive him, slips and also dies. (those two are my main destiny buddies) 7. girl gamer says" i can do this alone, it's EASY" and starts the fight. while two are down and we are only three surviving. 8. i kill myself because i want my friends to play with me, because we are a TEAM and they are not just spectators. 9. she keeps reviving me, telling everyone how easy it is to do this with three people 10. i begin to rant at her how rude and unneccessary her entire behaviour is and that you should NOT join a raid, kill a player and then YOOLO into the fight. 11. she laughs at this and tells me she can't take me serious because of my Swiss accent. [b]12. i kick her without any further comments [/b] 13. two friends join and wen do the rest of the raid as a team and enjoy the experience. I still can't believe what an asshole she was. you don't enter a Raid, kill a player andthen start the fight claiming that it's easy and you can do it alone. goddammit where are the manners? where is the Raid etiquette?

I raided with this 12 year old on 360 and I started on atheon he was level 28 and it was on normal and there 4 30's and myself a lvl 29 and every time we got teleported he yelled at nobody to pick up the relic but him then on Venus every time he would scream at us to throw grenades and we would and then he would die every time from the Minotaur and caused a wipe 5 times so eventually when we went I jut picked up the relic instead of him and he started screaming at me to put the relic down and I told him to -blam!- off and so then he jumped off the cliff but we just finished it without him but to teach him a lesson we let atheon get down to almost no health then revive him on the next times vengeance only to boot him right as we killed atheon

Yup. For the most part everyone is really cool when you lfg a raid team. But last week I found a team with one dude who was leading the team, I know the raid well but just followed his lead. People kept dying wich is gone on hard raid, eventually everyone gets it together. But this dick would yell at anyone who died and talk shit the whole time. When I gave my input about the relic at the gatekeeper he told me to shut the -blam!- up, the raid is a co op team effort and this dick doesn't understand that a team isn't gonna respond to being insulted. But whatever I left and found another raid team of Aussies at the gatekeeper and passed it in 2 wipes.