I actually find that a lot, the most aggressive people from distance go incredibly quiet when face to face. I just don't get this console war attitude. In our office there's about 50% Xbox One/PS4 split.
We're all adults and talk about Destiny and our experiences together all the time. We in fact wish by some miracle that cross platform play could be introduced. I don't understand alligning yourself with a piece of plastic. I had a PS1 and PS2 but at launch I dropped the PS3 like a bad habit and went with MS. Before that I'd bought every Nintendo machine up until the Wii as a kid. Vote with your wallet. It empowers you.
Absolutely the same mate, with a bit of pc thrown in. I'm not that bothered about exclusive stuff, will it effect me? No. Why did I get an xbox, because all my mate have on, is it the best console, no but do I really care that much when I'm having a great time with my mates? It's a bit annoying coming onto these forums hoping for some community spirt and information just to get another round of trolling. I guesse we'll have to wait for businesses to be honest, politicians to be truthful and money to grow on trees.