Hiya Flood!
I have quite a large problem in my hands. I have recently taken in a good friend who is going through a divorce and needs a place to sleep. He is the owner of a huge bloodhound named Johnson, who has been his best friend for practically forever. The only problem is that he doesn't do well in new environments, and constantly "relieves himself" in the house. I really feel like if this behavior continues, then I will have to tell him to leave Johnson with his ex-wife. However, he has lost his kids and his house, all he has left is his dog. I am faced with a moral quandary.
In the local lingo of the Flood, wat do? How can I solve this problem and still keep a clear conscience?
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1 返信Progoにより編集済み: 11/11/2013 10:09:19 PMJust tell your friend he needs to get a crate, dogs won't usually pee in their sleeping area so they'll hold it until you let them outside. And your friend can have the crate with him wherever he is sleeping in the house.
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Prototapeにより編集済み: 11/11/2013 11:25:19 PMGet a crate, put the dog on a new bathroom schedule until he becomes familiar with his environment. Make sure your friend goes outside with him and gives the dog a treat immediately after he goes, don't wait till he/she's inside to give the treat. Go to a pet store like Petsmart or Petco and get a bottle of Nature's Miracle as well (for when the dog has an accident inside), it eliminates the residual smell. Regular cleaners aren't going to cut it, it might get rid of the smell for you, but the dogs can still smell it, and they'll be more inclined to use the bathroom in the house more often. If you can't find that particular brand, check the ingredients and find anything with a bio-enzymatic formula: it'll eat organic materials like urine or feces, it's also good at getting up stains. Or just tell your friend to do all this. Don't get rid of the dog, it's not his/her fault, some dogs are just unsure about new environments and are trying to familiarize themselves with their new digs. Above that, your friend is going through a divorce, and getting rid of his dog is really messed up. I understand it's your house, but the solution to this is very easy. As far as the crate/bathroom schedule goes: Keep the dog in the crate, let him out in about an hour to go outside. If he/she doesn't go, put him/her back in the crate, and try again in 30 minutes. It shouldn't take long to get him/her back on track if he/she is already potty trained. If he/she has an accident in the house, don't yell, don't punish, just clean it up and put him/her back in the crate. If you start getting mad over it, the dog might confuse this with getting in trouble for using the bathroom in general, and it'll make things worse as they'll start holding it until they can't anymore, increasing the chances of indoor accidents. As Progo said, dogs typically won't use the bathroom in their crate unless they have a legitimate accident. Despite the fact that dogs generally seem fine with filth, they actually like to live in clean conditions.
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2 通の返信Your house your rules.. if you have an issue with he has no right to rebuke it... you opened your house open to him .. that doesn't mean he has the right to take advantage of your kindness.. so you do what you think is best
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Let the doge stay, help your friend get back on his feet and don't take away what he is quite likely clinging to for support. (His dog) There are a few ways to deal with the mess and people have suggested those, but kudos for looking out for your buddy in the first place.
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5 通の返信Either ask him if you can keep him in a dog house in the backyard or just put up with it. If some dude is going through what may be possibly the toughest scenario in his life (I don't know the guy, but it might be close,) then what I'd expect a friend to do is at least put up with the man's dog. The only time I'd imagine he'd have to remove the dog from the entire property is if you were have a multitude of guests over. In which case, I'd ask if either of you could take the dog to a relative for that specific time. Of course, this is going with very little context of said person though.
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2 通の返信You should only toss other people off with their permission. Sexual assault and/or -blam!- is no laughing matter.
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1 返信Osskuにより編集済み: 11/11/2013 5:15:14 PM