It's probably a bad idea to help spread those rumors unless you yourself have information on what happened. The Death of a Community Member is tragic and really shouldn't be brought up so idly, it's pretty damn serious. If someone knows what happened they will come forward on their own, threads like these don't particularly help =\
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Back in the pre-digital days, we called such a trusted friend a "porn buddy". You each had keys to each other's place and in the event of one person's demise, the other would visit their home and remove all traces of magazines and videos before the grieving family uncovered them.