Dude, I'm sorry, that blows. I wish I had some comfort to offer, but the best I can say is that the right person won't cheat on you, won't hide things from you. It may not feel this way right now, but you dodged a bullet - granted, in a whole new state, but still.
Keep your head on your shoulders, this is a moment in your life, not your whole life. This, too, shall pass.
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It sucks cause apparently the whole time we lived together which was a month btw she downloaded that app. I knew something was up i just didnt know what. Now i know and i left her and took all my stuff with me and moved back home.
Try not to blame yourself for her behavior, sometimes we take things to heart when we shouldn't, we see breakups and cheating as a reflection on ourselves rather than on our partners. She made a choice, that choice is on her shoulders, not yours. Learn what lessons you can from the breakup, resolve not to make the same mistakes again, then mourn, and heal.
For what it's worth, you got shafted. Moving you in and then cheating on you is a dirty move, you're allowed to be angry; I think anyone would be angry in your shoes, I know I would be. I'm really sorry this happened to you.
Its funny because her aunt is getting info out of me so they can take her to a therapist or psychiatrist forcefully. They are tired with her behavior and i guess what she did to me was the last straw. I regret what i said to her out of anger and scorn because i should have been the better person and left it at sending the proof to her family and leaving it alone i apologized to her for what i said but she sent a really hateful message as a result so that also helped me realizing what i dodged at least it wasnt a year or when we got married when i found out.