Is the friend plasmaslug#3186?
Wizards only spawn once each area has had at least one clear of Overthrow (lifetime), they haven't gotten any clears in The Blooming.
Once they kill an Overthrow boss in the Blooming, the first wizard will spawn. After that repeat overthrow clear -> wizard in the other 2 areas without orbiting/leaving the instance and then do the orb dunking section.
as you were replying our first one spawn i assumed we had done tier 4 on the blooming but we must of went to orbit once he compelted part of the alone in the dark quest thanks for your help bud