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VECNAにより編集済み:
7/22/2021 6:18:16 PM
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Female players
I find it hard to see why some players won’t add my wife to do activities. Because she is a woman. This is out of order and I have no time for it.
Woman man don’t matter it’s a game. Doesn’t matter who controls the player.
Edit I have had a lot of positive feedback from some really good gamers over this topic. Thank you.
If what I’m being told is true that some men gamers can’t and are not aloud to game with girls. I fully understand. I know it’s just a game but some relationships have no trust etc.
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1 返信Corrick IIにより編集済み: 7/22/2021 4:44:50 PMIf that happens, it’s a pretty good indication you don’t want to be playing with that person or group anyway, so while what they did was the lowest of low class, they at least let her know they aren’t worth the time so she could find another group. Some people are children and will always be children.
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1 返信I agree. If a female has completed all her house duties then she should be allowed a few hours to play destiny, and thus be included in any of the activities.
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Beware the Catfish Gamers!! Next thing you know you’ll wake up in a half a star motel Missing a kidney in Guadalajara! To OP: You game with her, You married her. And before you start screaming sexism, I’ve been in a clan with married women. Several of them in fact. It doesn’t end well. I was accused of stuff that would make the Hub blush over. All because I carried her in activities her significant other either wouldn’t or couldn’t. They always get jealous over something insignificant and innocent. ALWAYS! If you’re on Xbox I can run with Both of you but only both of you!
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I mean I could try to entertain some argument about how men typically dominate the highest level of games so the just want the best players blah blah blah but I doubt these people have any remotely acceptable reason
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the only time I have a hard time playing with anyone is their personality and how they effect others I play with. It never has to do with their gender. Maybe that's the issue they have. about a third of my clan is made up of female players, maybe a change of scenery is the course you should take.
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2 通の返信I can’t help but feel like this is just fake. Hear me out, most ppl when I mean by “most” I mean the vast majority/90% of all players are very open to playing with women. I dont think ppl just say “oh she’s a women I’m not playing with her” have you or her ever considered that maybe her stats don’t fit the activity requirement that is being requested by said player? Have you ever considered that maybe she thinks it’s bc she’s a women and bc of this she spreads this false narrative that everything negative that happens to her is bc she’s a women. When those things happen nobody wants to deal with that B.S so most players who don’t want the drama tend to keep they’re distance, not bc they hate women but bc when you want to play an activity they are there to have a fun time, not to deal with drama that sometimes certain women (most of them dont) create. Male gamers who create drama are usually kicked out or told to stfu but they don’t go to forums and complain about it. Also what doesn’t make sense in your statement is that players don’t invite her bc she’s a “women” I’m going to assume this is LFG and if so how would they know that she is a women? And if she joins party and is kicked out for that feminine voice then these kids are probably A-holes who aren’t worth playing with in the first place. Now I’ve known female gamers who actually use they’re gender as a way to get free carries, no joke ppl will carry women bc they are a “women” so that seems like the opposite of discrimination. I’d honestly recommend you join a particular group of good ppl who you can just chill with and not use LFG bc I would never recommend that to anyone. Also last thing. I can’t help but feel like this is bait or false information that benefits the narrative that women are being oppressed.
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This is one of those things where I want to say that can't be right, but I've got female friends who play various games and the shit they have to deal with blows my mind. Makes you wonder wtf is wrong with people. I have pretty set standards for who I play with: be competent and have a personality that can take a joke and be a smart ass right back and we are good to go ladies and gents.
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7 通の返信I can't recall coming across anyone being like rude or whatever because I'm a girl, I do get a lot of harassment but typically everyone just carries on when they see I'm a girl. Oddly enough the most I get from just being a girl is "your voice is sexy". What the -blam!- is that lmao, some guys make me never want to open my mouth
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SolarCerberuSにより編集済み: 7/21/2021 1:00:59 AMCan be a few reasons, some are actually scared of women, some unfortunately have that archaic and incorrect belief women are not as capable, some are incels, while others have oppressive and/or jealous wives/girlfriends and as such may not be allowed to game with other females.
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1 返信I stopped reading after the “cuz she’s a woman” bit. I highly doubt that’s the case. LFG is full of “gotta know what you’re doing” “must have x” “this many clears” and such. But nice try tying sexism to a problem that has nothing to do with sexism 😂
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11 通の返信I had an experience just yesterday, joined a clan and their discord and set up a raid for the evening. I got a friend request and party chat invite from the leader so I joined the party said hello and the leader never said a word but went offline, kicked me from the clan and discord. I was a bit shocked as to the reason why and could only presume it was because I'm female. Turns out his wife won't let him speak or play with females
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Prissychickにより編集済み: 7/20/2021 10:43:15 PMAs a female player, I would suggest getting into a good clan. I never use Bungie lfg and can get into a group doing anything I need to do. PM me if you’re interested in joining a great, friendly clan. I’m very sad if she’s really experiencing these issues. We have a very active xBox side.
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8 通の返信theghost26000により編集済み: 7/20/2021 12:38:14 PMi don’t buy it. i’ve played with several females. the names were female in their gamer tags. a couple were really good. we talked about the game and star wars. i’ve also raided with a few. with younger people on the team. there was no hint of anyone giving a hoot about gender. i think this post is clout chasing.
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I’ve had many lfg attempts in past that seemed to be just idle groups where someone left and the post just got pushed up to top of queue and appeared ‘new’. If a lfg post has someone leave fireteam in the app it throws it to top even if person who left did so because activity was done. Not sure if that is the situation here, but can guarantee it happens because many who host on lfg don’t close fireteam after it’s full. They also can’t count and need 2 people and advertise for 5. All of this being said gamers particularly those of the lfg variety can be super toxic so anything is possible with them and it may just be an issue of the groups you are attempting to join. The plethora of kwtd, have high kd, have #+ clears posts on lfg just illustrates the means people want to use to exclude people and in plenty of cases the person making the most doesn’t meet their own criteria.
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I don't care personally about gender when it comes to gaming, but there are some horn dogs in video games, and some gamers that use such horn dogs to their advantage ( I lost count of how many LFG posts I've seen with gamergirl carry me thru this please, and the worst part is that most likely those "gamergirls" are just dudes )
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1 返信Tbh the only problem I’ve had with women really has nothing to do with the woman herself. The annoying part is all the stupid god damn apes simping over said woman. It’s god damn annoying. I don’t care if you’re horny, I just want the god damn activity to be done.
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2 通の返信hate n payneにより編集済み: 7/20/2021 7:31:44 PMThis community is full of toxicity and elitism for no reason. This game is as casual as it gets. I hope you and your wife eventually find a team to help you through whatever content you desire.
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2 通の返信sickjimmyにより編集済み: 7/20/2021 3:10:49 PMi love women but the gamer girl needs help thing its an insult to their own gender...equality means equality at everything....using the girl gamer tag to get a free trials recov makes me sick
