Don't be fooled by fake testimonials people specially once that are posted by the whole admin team. The destiny community is plagued with big communities claim to be safe havens yet when you gets in you are treated like straight garbage. Be safe out their guardians make sure you find a true home one you will feel safe in not fake communities. Be safe guardians
I mean. it's the internet. you really cant generalise it like that. You're always going to find great people and some salty people where ever you go. All you can do is interact with your community and either make the best friends you can, or float around a little until you find that special place that makes you happy. whether it be a larger clan or a smaller clan. I've moved on from some really great communities simply because I needed to. Big or small tho it really doesn't matter. They all have their place so just find something that works for you. <3