Don't be fooled by fake testimonials people specially once that are posted by the whole admin team. The destiny community is plagued with big communities claim to be safe havens yet when you gets in you are treated like straight garbage. Be safe out their guardians make sure you find a true home one you will feel safe in not fake communities. Be safe guardians
Well, perceived toxicity is sometimes borne of actual toxicity. Stop being toxic, and rid yourself of the anger, and you'll find that you have a much better time.