We use Discord to schedule raids, pve and pvp events. We also use it to schedule an admin run. While anyone is welcome to join our discord, we have had issue in the past with players bringing drama in the clan. As we are all adults, and have to deal with that in out day to day, we dont want or need that in our gaming community. You would need to join us on discord first.
I really hope you find what you are looking for. There are other dads clans like this around. Dads of Destiny has some very nice clans as does Uprising, another family gaming community.