-blam!-... You -blam!-ing serious? Just 'cause you're no longer dating someone and that someone is now getting married, doesn't mean you can no longer be friends or even talk... Kids these days. In response to your edit, seriously how old are you? There are typically two rings, the engagement ring - which is the one you propose with and is the one with a jewel or [i]jewels[/i] on it. Then there's the wedding ring - commonly referred to as the wedding band - which is the one you place upon each others fingers at the ceremony... -blam!-, I feel old now. Why do I even know about this shit...