So, I don't get any of this post? I've played countless amounts of time with many different people since the beginning and they don't give a shit that you're a girl. You shouldn't feel so high and mighty because of this. Great. You're a lady and you play video games. Just because 12 year olds can't keep their dick in their pants because of this doesn't mean all guys can't. I can honestly say I haven't ran into any man that's freaked out because I was a girl. Again, maybe a 12 year old or two, but I make sure I don't play with them anyway.
Play games for fun, not for attention. (yes, that goes for those chicks with "miss, lady, girl, etc." in their usernames)