I'm 27 years old. And have played with young kids old men whatever. I don't care. The people that get kicked from my raid teams 99% of the time are the disrespectful annoying yappy kids. Our group is all 25-27 we have all played from day 1. We when finding people for our raids like to bring people with little experience or people whom never have done raids so they get a chance. But when a kid is screaming in our ear cause they died. Or yelling at us about god knows what sometimes not making any sense. They must go. I wouldn't kick someone for being young. Lately a couple people I play with alot are 15 and 16 from England. And me being from Canada I like to learn stuff about that part of the world. I've traveled lots. Never there haha As for bullying. In a video game. I can't understand how this could happen. First off it's a video game. And if the kid can't figure out there is more to life then killing Crota he needs a wake up call. His parents need to do something about this. He mostly needs real life friends doing real life things. I'm blown away with kids these days. For me. Video games were for rainy days and minus 30 days. I never started gaming hard until I was 23 my friends and I were always doing something But kids would now rather play hockey on a console than going out and learning how to actually play. I feel sad for the kid. Who decided this game was so important to him to do what he did. And more than likely if he was old enough to make the decision to just go to the forums. Find a new group. And start over we wouldn't be here talking about this. Bullying isn't right. But you're on a headset. Able to back out whenever. And never see the person attempting to ruin your day. I know first hand being bullied in the real world is alot harder to overcome. With that being said. If anyone here. Is having a hard time finding a decent team. Or just wants to complete content add me on psn or xbox. I'm more than willing to if nothing else have fun. Which is what we are here to do. Long winded. With more than likely spelling errors. Auto correct and lack of sleep will ruin any rant. Good luck.

If someone's bullying you, all it takes is a little wit to get under the bully's skin and get them to back off. Be smarter than them. It's normally pretty easy if they're the type of person to bully someone online. Also, another very easy solution, USE THE FVCKING BLOCK COMMUNICATION FEATURE. Fvcking idiots these days. If you're making a video trying to get the sympathy for someone else. Don't make yourself a victim in it to. Tell their story, not yours. It will make the video a lot more reputable and understood. Also, obviously you're gonna get hate mail when you camp so hard that I can smell the s'mores. Especially using TLW and a matador. Two of the guns that make everyone rage the most. You're probably way too sensitive to be playing this game if being called a noob or scrub gets to you.

Not sure which is worse these days: the kids or the parents.

Is this satire? I'm sorry man? But he doesn't really look like the type to get bullied, he seems to be the one bullying, my advice, don't let your -blam!-ing little people play this game... I bought it for my little bro and nephew and let them know. Hey don't do this or that, keep calm, don't scream, if not just play the simple stuff. Bullying is some bitch shit, but if you allow your self to get bullied then you are on some bitch shit, especially online, wtf are they going to do to you? -blam!- them and their moms, counter bully them

People within this community and others overall are just downright saddening. For example, I for some reason wanted to play ghosts on my Xbox. Joined a lobby and a grown man and a kid just cusing each other out for no reason at all. Then the problem as you said right now. People will always try to take people down for their own personal gain of self pleasure. It's only best to not think about much, because people like that are always stubborn and will never make it far in life.

I'm not sayin bullyin isn't a problem...but it's online gamin You can block people Only play with people you know Play a solo game Go outside Not carve into yourself cause somebody online said so Hell I think younger kids can be worst then adults...I hear N word this and N word that,f uck yo mom, I'll kill you After that I think...well I'm not gona change they mind then I leave and find new players to play with And after a while you find a hand full of players that you mix well with

When I was a kid I used to think that pork chops and karate chops Were the same thing I thought they were both pork chops And because my grandmother thought it was cute And because they were my favourite She let me keep doing it Not really a big deal One day Before I realized fat kids are not designed to climb trees I fell out of a tree And bruised the right side of my body I didn’t want to tell my grandmother about it Because I was afraid I’d get in trouble For playing somewhere that I shouldn’t have been A few days later the gym teacher noticed the bruise And I got sent to the principal’s office From there I was sent to another small room With a really nice lady Who asked me all kinds of questions About my life at home I saw no reason to lie As far as I was concerned Life was pretty good I told her, “Whenever I’m sad My grandmother gives me karate chops” This led to a full scale investigation And I was removed from the house for three days Until they finally decided to ask how I got the bruises News of this silly little story quickly spread through the school And I earned my first nickname Pork Chop To this day I hate pork chops I’m not the only kid Who grew up this way Surrounded by people who used to say That rhyme about sticks and stones As if broken bones Hurt more than the names we got called And we got called them all So we grew up believing no one Would ever fall in love with us That we’d be lonely forever That we’d never meet someone To make us feel like the sun Was something they built for us In their tool shed So broken heart strings bled the blues As we tried to empty ourselves So we would feel nothing Don’t tell me that hurts less than a broken bone That an ingrown life Is something surgeons can cut away That there’s no way for it to metastasize It does She was eight years old Our first day of grade three When she got called ugly We both got moved to the back of the class So we would stop get bombarded by spit balls But the school halls were a battleground Where we found ourselves outnumbered day after wretched day We used to stay inside for recess Because outside was worse Outside we’d have to rehearse running away Or learn to stay still like statues giving no clues that we were there In grade five they taped a sign to her desk That read beware of dog To this day Despite a loving husband She doesn’t think she’s beautiful Because of a birthmark That takes up a little less than half of her face Kids used to say she looks like a wrong answer That someone tried to erase But couldn’t quite get the job done And they’ll never understand That she’s raising two kids Whose definition of beauty Begins with the word mom Because they see her heart Before they see her skin Because she’s only ever always been amazing He Was a broken branch Grafted onto a different family tree Adopted Not because his parents opted for a different destiny He was three when he became a mixed drink Of one part left alone And two parts tragedy Started therapy in 8th grade Had a personality made up of tests and pills Lived like the uphills were mountains And the downhills were cliffs Four fifths suicidal A tidal wave of anti depressants And an adolescence of being called popper One part because of the pills Ninety nine parts because of the cruelty He tried to kill himself in grade ten When a kid who could still go home to mom and dad Had the audacity to tell him “get over it” as if depression Is something that can be remedied By any of the contents found in a first aid kit To this day He is a stick of TNT lit from both ends Could describe to you in detail the way the sky bends In the moments before it’s about to fall And despite an army of friends Who all call him an inspiration He remains a conversation piece between people Who can’t understand Sometimes becoming drug free Has less to do with addiction And more to do with sanity We weren’t the only kids who grew up this way To this day Kids are still being called names The classics were Hey stupid Hey spaz Seems like each school has an arsenal of names Getting updated every year And if a kid breaks in a school And no one around chooses to hear Do they make a sound? Are they just the background noise Of a soundtrack stuck on repeat When people say things like Kids can be cruel? Every school was a big top circus tent And the pecking order went From acrobats to lion tamers From clowns to carnies All of these were miles ahead of who we were We were freaks Lobster claw boys and bearded ladies Oddities Juggling depression and loneliness playing solitaire spin the bottle Trying to kiss the wounded parts of ourselves and heal But at night While the others slept We kept walking the tightrope It was practice And yes Some of us fell But I want to tell them That all of this shit Is just debris Leftover when we finally decide to smash all the things we thought We used to be And if you can’t see anything beautiful about yourself Get a better mirror Look a little closer Stare a little longer Because there’s something inside you That made you keep trying Despite everyone who told you to quit You built a cast around your broken heart And signed it yourself You signed it “They were wrong” Because maybe you didn’t belong to a group or a clique Maybe they decided to pick you last for basketball or everything Maybe you used to bring bruises and broken teeth To show and tell but never told Because how can you hold your ground If everyone around you wants to bury you beneath it You have to believe that they were wrong They have to be wrong Why else would we still be here? We grew up learning to cheer on the underdog Because we see ourselves in them We stem from a root planted in the belief That we are not what we were called We are not abandoned cars stalled out and Sitting empty on a highway And if in some way we are Don’t worry We only got out to walk and get gas We are graduating members from the class of -blam!- Off We Made It Not the faded echoes of voices crying out Names will never hurt me Of course They did But our lives will only ever always Continue to be A balancing act That has less to do with pain And more to do with beauty

There are too many ignorant people on these forums who don't understand what real cyber bullying or harassment is. If you actually don't know or want to know more watch this video.

The video was kind of drab, but the point you're trying to make is a good one. I can't believe all comments saying things like "get tough," etc... Way to blame the victim! Sure, you can ignore/block anybody, and yes, to those of you talking about what happens in real life, it's just as easy to ignore/block someone there too. That's not the point, though, is it? I've been messaged after crucible matches before, and my response has always been something along the lines of "hey man, there's enough negativity in the world already. Why do you want to add more to that?" I also try to do my part to remember to message people GG if there was a particularly close match or skilled opponent. Whatever happened to the days when friendly competitions ended with a mutual respect and shaking of hands? This trash talking during/after the game is becoming more common in all competition, not just online gameplay; it's just easier online due to the anonymity the internet grants us. It's definitely a problem, but now how do we fix it? I don't think "spreading awareness" is a real tactic. All we can do is "be the change we wish to see..." so counter all those negative comments with positive comments of your own.

Dude, I agree, but you are not the only nice person playing this game. There are plenty of nice people willing to help people through raids. I played through the beginning with no mic, or Gjallarhorn, all the way up to half way through the Dark Below. But I still did Crota and VoG. The people were from LFGs and they're still my friends

I play with a god damn 7 year old he never listened in VoG ended up getting kicked but I felt kinda sad so every once in a while I'll invite him and play he sounds like a 4 year old and he has a 5 year old brother in the background arguing over playtime. I only dislike lying squeakers. If your bad say it. If your a noob say it. I played with a guy who had autism we did skolas together. Just be honest :)

Bunch lame ass holes who have no life is all. The other day I got invited to help someone in 32 POE. I joined, they kept dying and were having the hardest time killing Kalliks Reborn. We had him close and I popped my radiance then proceeded to chuck nades till that purple ball bastard was dead. I had basically killed the damn boss single handedly. And then: *You have been removed from the fireteam* I guess they were trying to be funny and kick me before the rewards. I have everything in the game so was not a big deal, but it's the sheer immaturity that I was astounded by. I'm 33 years old, have been gaming my entire life, and that was the first time I ever felt embarrassed to be playing video games. Like what am I doing hanging out with a bunch of immature kids on the internet?

This guy is an idiot. First of all the kid is online thats unrated. This game is rated T not E. Reporting someone in destiny for harassment isn't going to ban them. Thats why you report him to xbox. Getting hate msgs after every match is bull no one does that. If you join a party and you leave and they send msgs block them. Boom solutions to all the problems he mentioned.[spoiler]also don't say I don't know what it's likr to be bullied and shit. Been there done that moved on.[/spoiler]

Wooooow you have heard of the block feature? It's not new. If you aren't old enough to deal with the internet you shouldn't be on the Internet. I wasn't allowed to play online until I was old enough to not be influenced by idiots

You must be new to the internet.

I really tried not to laugh but I didn't try hard enough.

Fake

Get bullied builds character and I have been bullied