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Liaにより編集済み:
10/8/2018 11:45:47 PM
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All I can think about is her.
WARNING: This is relationship stuff. Turn back if that isn't your fancy.
So just had my homecoming last night, it was easily the highlight of the past 5 years of my life. Why? Last night, My crush for the past 5 years said she feels the same way. Bad news? Neither of us have time for a relationship right now. She said "maybe something in the future" while she played with my tie and smiled at me with that smile that drives me insane. We danced for a bit and I realized we are truly in love with each other. Now, I can't focus on my homework, or anything for that matter. All I can think about is her.
Her hair.
Her smile.
The fact we are polar opposites politically and religiously but can hold a civil conversation for hours.
Her voice.
Her eyes.
I can barely even type this right now. I can't even focus on this right now. I'm sorry if I'm annoying you guys, I just really need a place to vent.
Edit: We are talking over text, and she wants to go on a date. Turns out that time we needed was shorter than I thought.
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Give it a week. I asked a girl out I had a crush on for 3 years and she said she wasn’t ready to date. Tbh I kind of moved on, I’ve thought about her less since I don’t foresee being with her. She has a lot going on in her life, which was why she said no to me. If you really want to pursue this then tell her you’re willing to make time if she is.
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Be careful with your talk of love, this doesn’t seem like love. At least not the lasting love, the real love. Love is not an emotion that makes you feel tingly, love is not- not being able to forget someone’s smile. Often times the same things that cause people to fall in love cause them to fall out. Someone’s quirks become annoyances, or their cute stubbornness turns into thickheadedness. You cannot build a relationship on an emotion such as love, as emotions change. Love itself, is a choice. You have to choose to love somebody, and they have to choose to love you. You often see people getting into relationships for the perks of it. The sex, the companionship, but this is also why you see people not even lasting a year together. There’s no love there. Love isn’t something you go into and then come out of for better or worse, love, and true love at that, is a friendship on fire. You see each other at your worsts, you develop similar interests, and by the time you realize love each other you add the benefits- you get to cuddle now. At that point what is there to separate you? Other than death? I’ve had this dance before: just remember you have to make the choice, she does too.
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Take her out dude. "Living" is all something we could do better at, have a better house, job, travel, pursue an "ambition" only to wind up with squiddly pay, realizing we're not able to afford ALL the things we wanted in the first place. "Life" however shouldn't wait. Imagine how much MORE happiness it would bring spending each and every day with someone you truly love.
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bigtimejamezにより編集済み: 10/9/2018 2:32:44 AM[quote]while she played with my tie and smiled at me with that smile that drives me insane. We danced for a bit[/quote] [i]DAYUM[/i] boi it’s gettin spicy But seriously though, if you guys date, and both mutually agree and respect that school and work and similar things might/probably will take priority over your relationship, I think it could work. Also, maybe not best to convince yourself that you’re “truly in love”. Not saying you aren’t, but just remember that “truly in love” are some strong words. I’m kinda happy for you dude. It’s stupid coming from a complete stranger on the internet lol. But I’ve got a pretty bad crush on a girl right now, so I feel you. Just see how it goes. Good luck 👍
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7 通の返信
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... This is truly the most... [spoiler]sappy story I've ever heard, dump this chick she's ruining your life, homework is way more important, teenage relationships are pointless, and, love is a lie[/spoiler] [spoiler]not included in the DLC[/spoiler]
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Five years? Jeez bruv, I mean I can’t say much as my love life basically offed itself back in 09 but that seems way too long to be hung up on someone it’s borderline obsessive. Not judging or anything. Honestly all that aside gotta agree with the lot, if she can’t make time for you, or is saying stuff like I’ll be ready in like the future then it ain’t worth it. Move on from Jenny, Gump there’s plenty of fish in the sea.
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Let it roll out, the best thing you can do is wait. Time brings change, good and bad but it’s up to you to handle it. It could be days, weeks, and months and maybe even years. If you really believe in it, it’ll come around and smack you in the face.
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Yeah bro I’m sorry but all these other guys are right. If she really did love you she would make time, she’s probably just looking for a one-night stand or someone to come to when all other options fail her. I’m not saying anything about you, that’s just the type of girl she is. They’re all over.
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Right now you are feeling something that doesn't truly exist. It only feels like it does because you enjoy that person significantly more than any person in the past. As someone who was in your spot before. I'd say keep going with it, the best wisdom is from experience itself. Just dont be surprised if it dossnt work out the way you think
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15 通の返信Not enough time for a relationship. True love would make time for a relationship. True love would battle sword masters defeat giants, drink poison, storm castles, and make at least a little bit of time for each over [spoiler]but what do I know? All I know about love is from the princess bride. The only good love story out there. Everything else is just stupid like the concept of significant others. Either way I believe I’m right [/spoiler]
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2 通の返信I hope she supports the socialist proletariat working class? If so, she is a keeper. Forget about school and ask yourself: from whence do the means of production flow? Do they not, proceed from the labor of the labourer? There is a reason the early Christians where communists. Communism is true, and finding a fruitful relationship whereby two comrades can sow the seeds of the nation's future through love, that is your duty to the mother land. To love is work, to work is love. Onward for the progress of the socialist Marxist road!
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8 通の返信You're on a self-induced hormone high. If either one of you were truly in love, you'd make time for the relationship. The fact that neither one of you is willing to do that, means that its not really love.
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I'll be bonest here, mate. If a girl tells you she doesn't have time, or doesn't have time yet, it usually means that she's not interested in you. You may think that I'm just some random on the Internet, and I most likely am, but I'll tell you this: I was in the exact same spot as you (well, her being my crush only 3 instead of 5 years). It didn't end well, but after another year we've managed to conversate normally again, as friends. I have now moved on.
