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8/1/2018 2:18:38 PM
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[quote][quote]If you reply with something offensive like “online dating doesn’t work” then just keep that to yourself.[/quote]
Mate, that isn't offensive, it's reality. You have 2 options;
Just drop it. There is a reason everybody is saying the same thing, and it's because they're right. It isn't personal attacks, and shouldn't be taken as such. It's advice, the best advice we can give you.
Your other option, is ask if she wants to make it more real and look into expensive airplane tickets and flight schedules on basically a monthly basis.
Now please go ahead, mute me for telling you what you didn't want to hear if you haven't already. I've said what I want to say my guy. [/quote]
^Wyoming
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[quote]You know What’s so bad about an online -blam!-ing relationship these days?[/quote] Well, for starters, it's not actually a real relationship. Not to mention, because there's not actually any (as you so eloquently put) -blam!-ing, let alone any actual physical contact.
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Did they go anywhere? Did they advance beyond emails, texting and possibly a phone call or two? Did they even have the chance of advancing past any of that? My guess is no. No. It's a pretend relationship, "practice" if you will. If you can't share a knowing smile. If you can't know that if you touch her just right, in just the right way, she'll giggle uncontrollably. If you've never had her cry into your chest. If you've never had that tingling when your arms slightly touch, etc etc. No, no a real relationship.
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Have you ever had such love? No so shut the -blam!- up. If you call a relationship that was over 800 miles apart and lasted nearly 2 years not a relationship You need some serious lessons on the common day relationship.
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Boy, I was having relationships before you were a twinkle in your old man's eye, even before the Internet. Try real girls...that you can touch. Try a real relationship, you'll be blown away, and confused at the same time. Internet relationships are as fake and uncomplicated as a piece of plastic.
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[quote]Most noticeably, the fact that it never goes anywhere. Sure, you can have a bit of fun with it, but like you said in some other comments, you need more than an "enhanced friendship". You need affection, you need a relationship. And a key, fundamental aspect of affectionate relationships, is the idea that it might go somewhere. Also, on a scientific side of things, there are some especially important chemical releases that can only be acquired from physical contact with another person. [/quote] ^Wyoming
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When I say I need affection it doesn’t mean I need my pickle in my pants blown it means I need a relationship that I can enjoy. Let me tell you right now and this is from 0 experience I do not want to date a girl in person knowing if things don’t work out I might have to see her around in my area again someday. I do not want to date a girl get close to her physically and wind up getting dumped for some douchebag who doesn’t give a shit about her only the inappropriate favors they have. I’ve had bad close calls with girls who would fit that roll to a damn T That is why I focus more on online relationships 1.its more freedom to both persons in the relationship if something goes wrong oh well move on 2. Neither of us need to Rush to spend money to be with each other just messaging gets us both the affection we need. 3. And this one is probably my best point so far There have been MANY relationships from an online source that winded up working out for the couple once they met. Just because you like getting your pickle in your pants sucked doesn’t mean that’s the BEST it could be for you. What if that Pickle in your pants sucking woman or man happens to have the worst personality? With online relationships finding that person who you know you should be with is far more less complicated than it is in person. Think about it If I saw a attractive woman on let’s say Facebook and she was single with a caring personality all I have to do is send a few messages and what do you know we’d be talking all night. With a girl in person you have to Find said girl which isn’t as easy as it is online Then you have to talk to her and get to know her without coming off as a creep for looking at her chicken breasts constantly then you have to get her contact info plan a day off your regular activities call her up and drop $100-$300 on one night which might get you some pickle in your pants sucking.
