While the current theories are sound.
A lot of those are just coincidences. There's an active list of six destiny characters mentioned which could be the Stranger. Who cares who or what she was. It's the past. The future is of primary concern, but the present is the most important.
You’re right, the choices we make now are what matters. However, I do believe that what the moments that molded us into who we are have some importance, to
Would you mind pointing me towards the active list? I never knew we had one