I have crossSaved my account so I could play my xbox account on ps4, when I did that it completely resetted my progress and to disable it and hopefully get my account back I need to wait 77 days because I bought silver on my xbox account recently. Please help if there is a way to not wait 77 days to play my own account again
You set up cross save incorrectly. When it asked which account you wished to be the cross save account you picked PSN when you should have picked XBox.
You can use the contact form located at the bottom of this page, https://www.bungie.net/en/Help/Troubleshoot?oid=48099 to request Bungie switch your cross save account from PSN to XBox.