Sounds like he just has to accept things for the way they are and try to find himself another girl. You can't force someone to like you, no matter how much you may like them. Not having a girlfriend or still having your vcard isn't a bad thing. He should just enjoy his single life while he can, I'm guessing he's around 19 so he's still young and has plenty of time.
On a side note sounds like you should put some more trust in your girlfriend. While you may not trust many of your guy friends with her you should be able to to trust her, unless she's given you some reason not to. Just my .02 don't take it too personal. Best of luck kind of a delicate situation you're in.
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No its not exactly my lack of trust with her....she just had way too much to be in a very vulnerable state. Every other time I'd be 100% confident * sips tea *