Honestly?
Sounds like something you need to work out with her, not this community.
Choice A, you join and she accepts it. Great.
Choice B, you join and she doesn't. Not as good short term, probably better long term if you find someone in line with where you want to be.
Choice C, you don't join and she and you live a great life together.
Choice D, you don't join and break up after five months over some other stupid stuff.
Ultimately if you see the two of you together "long term" then you have to make life choices (like this one) with her. If you can't agree (depending on the degree of disagreement), then it might be time to rethink the relationship.
Either way, you should first figure out what you want. When you find the right person, you'll be surprised what you'd give up and what you wouldn't for them. (It will also show you what you truly value ... A topic for another time)
Edit: damn smartphone autocorrect messing up speelling and punctua.tion. ;)
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