Well if you join and you want to stay together you will have to make her your wife. If she doesn't want a military life your marriage will end almost guaranteed. I see it all the time.
Also you should probably ask close friends not randos on the destiny forum lol
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I asked randos so I wouldn't have to deal with her finding out that I'm ready to dump her... (We have tight knit friends ) .-.
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If you want to leave her, nut up and do it. The Marines don't need people who hide from their own issues. You want to be a man? Tell her what's going on, instead of stringing her along. That's cowardly. Show that you can carry that kind of responsibility and get ready for a job that demands loads of self sacrifice. You'll be better for it on the other side.
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Then just tell her you're joining and that's that. You deserve your dreams and she deserve the truth. If she leaves it will be for the best, for both of you.