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My girlfriend won't let me join....

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So my girlfriend won't let me join the Marines, saying "she doesn't want the military as any part of her life" It's been my life long dream to join the Marines. What should I do?
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  • Edited by Helljumper: 1/5/2015 6:20:36 AM
    Always take your life dreams over a girl. Women are replaceable, your career is not.

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  • Military is BS but bro always stay true to yourself Do You!!!

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  • Don't join there are loads of other careers that won't leave you struggling to fit into normal society afterwards because of what you go through.

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    • At this point in time I wouldn't join... Great benefits of you come back alive but if you didn't know America is on the verge of war with Russia, China and North Korea.... Unless you wanna roll the dice and join just to die for a pointless cause then do so.

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    • Not that it matters since we're all random internet people. You must be true to yourself. Follow your dreams, there's tons of other chicks out there.

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    • Women are always right young pup, you'll learn in time

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    • Dude do what u have to do remember females come and go and u wont hold back ur lifes goal for a female that is going to be gone sooner or later focus on urself and create ur own future cause no one is going to create it for you! Those was the words of my father now ive been a army airborn soldier for 8 years!

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      • Is a girl willing to tell you to give up on a dream one worth having?

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      • Go

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      • Plan on marrying this girl? Or have you just not talked that far in future. ....cause if you plan on marrying this chick. ..itsnot gonna work. Shes already stated she wants something you dont want. It is doomed from there on out unless you truly want to change your goals in life to satisfy her not wanting a military life.

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      • It isn't about whether your aspiration is , it is about the matter of the timing of it. Time always moves ahead regardless of who you are dating. The questions you need to ask are , how serious is your relationship . If it is great even , that doesn't make it an automatic lock~in for a marriage. Even great relationships drift and move on in time. Under that circumstance you can have your due course , then apply to the Marines either as a single man or sharing with a girl that feels as you do , or simply supports the decision. One thing I can tell you for certain ~ Never do yourself the injustice of not working your ass off to achieve your dream. It's more than a goal. This is your life and nobody can pilot the vessel you live in every day. And you can't live anyone else's either. Living is about being happy , and if being a Marine is A. Something you think is a good cause, will excel at, something you wanted to do* •then possibly it will either make you happy •it won't •get you hurt or worse Or~ B. Doesn't matter , because in your heart you already ARE & HAVE ALWAYS been a Marine.* •then no choice to be made, it has been made,you've already made it long ago. You have to do what in your heart you want the most. I know technically you are a civilian , so that isn't what I'm about to ask. This is your heart . Your gut. Just answer me this one question... ARE YOU A MARINE ? ! . Or just a man? Good luck my friend , best of the world to you, in whatever you choose . Let us know.

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      • Good way to find out how many girl gamers there are

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      • Maybe she'll come around on the idea, I think you should join if it is really your dream and if you do I want to say thank you in advance for serving our country

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      • Do what you want. Its YOUR life to live, do you want to be on your death bed one day knowing you werent one? To me that would make me feel like i failed my big life goal

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      • If you were meant to be a soldier, damn it go be a soldier. This is a tough time and the marines are tough as shit, but if that's your dream, go get it bro

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        • Go ahead bro join, when you get deployed another man can take care of her while you are gone haha

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        • Join the Air Force!!!

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        • Many a girl will come and go throughout the course of a life. However you are only young and fit enough to join the military for a short time...

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        • Edited by Tremolo: 1/5/2015 5:56:00 AM
          Listen man, a bit of relationship advice: If she really is the right one for you to be with, then she would be supportive and encouraging of your dreams. If I were you, I would shoot for the stars, and pursue your dream. Don't let her clip your wings. Get out there an do what you were made to do. Good luck. :)

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        • The real question is: If it's your dream, and she doesn't want you to go, will you resent her for making you choose between your dream and her? You gotta do right by you man. Even if you love her. You [u][i]must[/i][/u] do what you feel inside is the right choice for you.

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        • Drop her and join the Air Force.

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        • It comes down to if you value her or being in the marines more.

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        • Yikes.... I'd say no, don't join. But, I guess if it is a dream of yours then you should do it. [spoiler]why do you want to join so bad though?? Don't ya think it's a little ..... Well, I'll keep my personal opinions to myself.... But, man, I'd listen to her... [/spoiler]

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        • What it comes down to is do you love her? If you want to risk the right one for some military career and regret it for the rest of your life, then go ahead. If you love her and want to stay with her, then maybe the military life isn't for you. If she means little to nothing to you, then by all means go right ahead. The military life isn't for everyone. Ask yourself. Is it right for you? Is possibly losing her worth joining? That guardian, is up to you to decide.

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        • It all depends on her reason for not letting you join. Military life is a lil rough when it comes to relationships. Most can't do long distance or go through knowing their partner could lose his/her life. Ask what's the reason and make your decision

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        • Just please think of what you're life could become if you stay, you could end up having a family... Sorry but in my opinion real war is terrifying. I'm glad that you're that brave but, just think of your options ok?

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