Listen, are you crazy??? more like mimic her expressions. if she's smiling while talking, smile back and nod. if she looks troubled while talking, look concerned and nod. If you can't discern her expression, ask her if she changed something about herself. It's worked on my wife for 13 years.
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Subconsciously we humans do that automatically.
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that's conditional. People do this automatically until we become aware of those actions. Then they become conscious actions. It's definitely controllable, like smiling while internally dealing with something troubling. It's easy to feign interest in a conversation without actually listening to anything said.