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Edited by Otthild: 7/15/2014 4:09:21 AM
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Flood, it's my turn for advice

Recently I got diagnosed with depression. Things have been, for lack of a better word, hard. Since that got pinned on me, I struggle to find happiness in my daily activities. I no longer find joy in tormenting all of you and my coworkers. As I get closer to my due date, I notice my boyfriend getting more and more distant. He won't answer my messages or hold me like he used to. Usually I'm not all touchy, feely, and all that fgt shit, but for some reason it's really starting to bother me. Anyways, I feel forgotten and cast aside. I told my boyfriend at the start of this relationship that if he was going to pull this shit he can go find someone else. But since I'm a bit attached right now (having his kid, yadayadayada), I can't seem to leave. Don't get my wrong guys, I love the -blam!-er. I just need more... attention, affection, and hell at least some acknowledgement. I've talked to him several times about this, but it seems to have fallen on deaf ears. What would you do in this situation? TL;DR: Otthild's ranting and wants advice on how to deal with a negligent significant other. EDIT: Baby is going out for adoption. EDIT #2: Guys, I have talked to him. I've talked to him a lot. He always brushes me off. EDIT #3: Yes, I will be going to counseling for postpartum. EDIT #4: Thank you for the advice guys. I'll try to apply it the best I can. Also, thank you for the limited amount of troll responses.

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  • When a guy dates a girl for a while, it's exhausting to devote all the attention and compliments to the girl like when they first met. Guys tend to lay off the compliments and attention because it's pretty much implied at this point that they care about you. If you "bug" him less, then maybe he'll appreciate your more rare attempts to communicate. And I know you've tried talking to him, but have you tried to do so in a manner that is appropriate? ("(Name), recently I've been feeling really depressed and disappointed because we haven't been communicating with each other as much and aren't as intimate. I love you a lot and love every moment I get to be around you and talk to you. I was hoping we could improve...yadda yadda yadda" The video posted could be very relevant though lol

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