T4R I talked to a few friends that have been out of high school for a few years and they say dating is easier. Is it true?
Dating in highschool sucks unless both parties are willing to put forth the effort, making it similar to a marriage. And as much as it sucks, it's necessary. You need to learn to pick up confidence early. I only know a handful of people who did nothing during highschool (sexual or otherwise), and are now in a loving relationship in college.