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Edited by jive turkey145: 3/29/2014 5:30:57 AM
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Never tell a girl you like her if she's not yours

No idea why you guys have the need to proclaim your love for these women. When you tell a girl you like her you give her control. The chase is over. She's done, she has power over you now. And mentally, biologically, socially or whatever that makes her lose attraction faster than you can tell the flood of your brave move. The trick is to make her like you. She'll be the one chasing you studs, asking Internet forums if she should admit to you her feelings. #RealTalk
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  • Edited by Anti noise: 4/5/2014 6:19:42 PM
    Don't listen to this kid gentlemen, he has no idea what he is talking about. This is how I met my wife. My cousin had his first real girlfriend, she broke his heart, it destroyed him. He is from the city, 2 hours away. So he decides to come up and stay with me and meet this girl he has been talking to from my area on the internet. So she comes over, he ends up going up stairs to cry. I start talking to her, we hit it off quite well, she is sexy as can be. Well, my cousin decides he wants to date her, me being the gentlemen I am decide I will let him have his shot. We both become good friends, best friends even; the girl and I. Well as things progress she isn't really interested in him. I tell him that I like her. He's cool at first, until i send her a $200 bouquet of flowers. This is where my cousin goes rage quit. He starts telling her all kinds of lies about me, some truth, which he didn't know she already knew. We got a laugh out of it because he showed his true colors. So I ask her to lunch not as a date but to hang out. We run into my recruiters at the time, Sgt. Balvanz and Sgt. Marshal. They talk some crap then boost me up to her. She gets a kick out of it. I tell her a few days later she is going to be my wife, mind you we had known each other only a month. She kind of giggles and gives me a smile. We start laughing, the kind of laugh where you connect and can't help but laughing when you look into each others eyes. So I tell her I am going to ask her father permission to date her. I take her and her family out to a local diner, I ask him after dinner if he would give me his blessing to date his daughter, he gives it. We start dating, about 2 weeks later I have made my mind up, I am going to marry her. I ask her if she would marry me if I asked, she said yes. So 5 days later I had the ring, took her to a boardwalk at sunset, sat her down handed her my bible, which had the ring on a page about marriage. I then got on one knee and asked. She stopped breathing for about 10 minutes, then said yes. XD I Went to her father the next day and asked his permission, he immediately said yes. This shocked me actually, as my wife's father is Jewish. My wife is a messianic Jew, so is her father now. I left for basic training 2 weeks later. We were married in August of that year. We have now been married almost 4 years and have a 1 year old son. The Moral, Confessing your feelings can and will land you the women of your dreams.
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    • "Your's"? No one "owns" another person. In the end, everyone is free to make their own decisions, their own mistakes, their own choices. If you care for (or about) someone else, they probably already know (to one extent or another). Depending on you, depending on them, depending on how you both interact, how those feelings are expressed can be done in an almost infinite number of ways. There are no rules. If someone chooses to keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves? That is their choice. They will live with the consequences. If they choose to put their feelings into words or actions? Again, they will live with the consequences.
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      • Preach!
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        It's true. A lot my pick-ups started as flirtatious indifference. You flirt a bit to get her thinking about the possibility, then let on like you couldn't care less either way. Alternate the two for a bit and she'll be the one making the move. As much as chicks want a dedicated and sensitive guy, most can't stand a needy one.
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        • Edited by Jay: 4/5/2014 5:55:53 PM
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          Back once again - old

          I asked my girlfriend out in feb 2013 by admitting all that to her. Unfortunately the relationship became a long distance one. I still went down there every now and again, but she grew impatient. In October she broke it off because she couldn't handle a long distance relationship anymore. I stuck around though and we stayed as best friends. She had helped me out of a very dark place and I had sworn to myself much earlier that I was going to be there for her no matter what. So later in October she became interested in this one guy at her school. She talked to me all about him and as much as it hurt (because I still loved her very much) I gave her my best advice and didn't let my personal feelings prevent her from being happy. All I ever did was help. Throughout this two month span, I was always there for her. In late December, this guy absolutely crushed her heart by basically saying that dating her wasn't worth his time. He had lead her on for months just to do that. January was a bad month for her. Then on February 7th, she came to me and asked me out (which is a big deal because she believes that the guy should [b][u]ALWAYS[/u][/b] ask the girl out). I won her over just by being there and talking to her and understanding her. That was the best possible outcome. I'm still surprised she wanted to give us another shot. Why anyone would want to date a depressed sociopath is beyond me, but she did. So yeah, that's my story. Things are going great for the most part.
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          • If you're not ripped and/or rich then you shouldn't tell any girl you like them, could ruin your current friendship with her.
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          • I'm sparing with compliments/expressions of adoration even to my girlfriend. She says 'I love you' first way more than I do, and that's the way it should be.
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          • #brotalk
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          • This is... Actually logical...
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          • It's true. When a guy just lays it out on me, I know he's mine until I want to let him go. And let me tell you, once I have you, you're not getting away until I'm done with you.
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            • I know my friend tried asking a girl to homecoming but she already had a boyfriend and then her boyfriend tried to fight him.
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            • jive how to get laid???
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              • Is this middle school?
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                • Needs to be read foreal :/
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