Single and quite happy for the time being. Having a girlfriend is not like the end all, be all. If you put so much hype into thinking that a relationship is some awesome thing and that it will solve a lot of problems, it isn't always like that. You have to work at it, because the majority of guys do not make good boyfriends, especially if you've never dated before. Relationships are hard, and sometimes when you need to get your life in order and figure out your future, a girlfriend is not the answer.