I didn't read the article
But imagine this.
You're an attractive woman.
You're hit on every other day. People say vulgar things to you. They ask you crude questions and you have to be polite otherwise you're a bitch.
Your manager grabs a feel here and there but it's just "joking around" if you bring it up. You should calm down and take it as a compliment anyway.
You should be happy men are throwing themselves at you. Despite you saying you have a boyfriend they guilt trip you. They make you feel bad. The more you politely resist the more forceful they become.
Hostile. They resort to calling you names. Even spitting at you.
You're assaulted. But you should calm down. It's a -blam!-ing compliment.
What I'm saying is
After awhile its not a joke. After so many days of taking it "as you should" you get -blam!-ing tired of it.
You can compliment a woman without slapping her god damn ass. You didn't ask. You didn't have permission to touch her.
//rant
Will probably delete later.
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*smacks ass*
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Well said Smi!
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Faith in humanity restored for the day. Hopefully nothing ruins it.
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70 replies. Typical.
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Don't delete it, that's a great response Smi.
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Oh look, a jumping to conclusion comment on the flood. What a surprise. *sigh* I'm staying away from this shit/
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[quote]Will probably delete later.[/quote]why though
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I don't like to get mad/flustered. I prefer to bring positivity to things around me and while this isn't negative, I was feeling negative emotions when I posted it.
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Edited by Verbatim: 1/9/2014 6:06:42 AMwell okay but i'd just advise against deleting anything you post it's a part of who you are, and that's something one ought to take accountability and responsibility for. deleting the message won't actually delete it in the sense that it's still a part of you, a part of your psyche. i'd even argue it's unhealthy to shield or suppress negative emotions. sometimes you need to vent, and through such a process, you'll oftentimes learn a lot about yourself, what methods you like to use in public debate, what works, what doesn't, etc. etc. it's good that you posted it in the first place, but don't be ashamed if you get a little flustered and post every once in awhile while in that mode. indeed, it's these kinds of posts that draw out the passion and intellect that a lot of users like to hide on this website, and it's the kind of post that i await from every user. it's a shame to see that you would block yours off, though, just because you want to maintain some kind of facade. but do whatever you want, i just think deleting anything of yours is silly
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That is the most beautiful thing I've heard you say Verby. Thank you. I will take this advice and utilize it to the fullest. I really do enjoy what you have to say and I'm honored you would take time to say all that to me. I have no other words for this other than I love you and keep being you Senpai.
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well said. Guys who touch females they don't know are assholes. Even if they know the gal it's not ok to just slap her when you feel like it. You aren't that person and some people do not like to be touched. I know what it feels like for a stranger to just cop a feel outta nowhere. I didn't know wtf was going on in that brief moment. It was all of the sudden and super violating. Not cool at all.
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I'm really sorry to hear that dude. And I sincerely hope it never happens again <3
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People in general are just insensitive towards others. I think all the guys who go around touching females on the streets don't even think twice about what they are doing. It might just be a 'feel' for them but it's more to the person receiving the unwanted contact.
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In my personal experience of asking others why this is I've learned that its because men, as a general rule, don't get touched like that or cat called often. So when they do they take it as a huge ego boost and confidence builder. A bragging point. And think women should feel the same (not out of spite) but due to not understanding how far it goes and happens to them on a daily basis.
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I find it odd that it not happening to them though makes them think its ok to do to others. Maybe I just have a high sense of awareness when it comes to others but I'd never think it was ok to just randomly go around touching people for no reason. That would be more embarrasing for me than the person I touched lol
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Please don't delete this was a really good reply.
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I was looking for a response like this when I read the OP. I am now content. The truth has been spoken.
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Yep they do need to calm down.
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Are you ever not a shitposting troll?
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Are you ever going to have evidence supporting that I'm trolling?
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Edited by II Smiggles II: 1/9/2014 4:53:05 AMI thought I had you muted Let me fix that.
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Why must everyone always proclaim that they are muting someone? You can't just mute me and move on without the comment? Anyways, you're a white knight and a pussy. You need to grow a pair of testicles and start acting like a man.
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Smi is a woman PSU
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[quote]Anyways, you're a white knight and a pussy.[/quote] so? [quote]You need to grow a pair of testicles[/quote] so? [quote]and start acting like a man.[/quote] so?